Kam,
congrats once again. enjoy yr ML. rest n milk ss will come.
i have an update situation of the WW3 in my hse. very bad situation haha every other day will received calls to scold my hb n on sat, WORST! every few hrs sms/ calls till i pek chek. that idiot still want to speak to my mother to ask her if it is reasonable for me not to go down. i told hb if she dare to do tat, i will turn up at porpor's hse n ask porpor if this is the way she teach her daughter n if this is the way she treats her DIL too. she even can suggest this to my hb "u bring the kids down. let her (me) stay at home n let maid look aft her". my hb was fedup. we are a family. how can let a preg woman stay at home with a maid who duno anything to take care of her (esp when i keep having braxton hicks). then on sat nite, he finally "returned call" to that idiot n told her our decision. she was mad! she shouted at my hb n say "i wana speak to her mother, ask her abt this (AGAIN????). now u big enuf n married liao, u only listen to yr wife n not to me liao lah! next time u want any help, dun expect anyone to help u!" n hanged up the call. waseh! she keena or fan lao huan tong? anyway, we dun expect her to help anymore (n tolong ..pls dun come n mess our lives again). jz tat we din tell her "she is not required to help out anymore". my hb apologised to me n say it took him years to realise his mother never treat me as a family at all (since day 1). i told him, if his mother dare to call my mother, i m not going to "let her off" tat easily. she has my hse key? so wat?! this my hse, i can change locks easily! she wants to see her grandchildren? can .. at most once a mth or once every 2-3 mths. dun expect me to turn up at all her family gathering! i simply have enuf of her nonsense!