krystle,
My #1 overdue(but actually i think her EDD not accurate) and #2 born on EDD. as for my hubby SIL, her #1 and #2 both are born as premie so somehow what you mentioned earlier does make some sense. another jun mummy, her #1 and #2 are born few days b4 EDD also.
I believe in due time, ur girl will also love her little brother cos now they r still young so it's easier for them to accept younger siblings? just keep educating her abt little brother in your tum tum and make her feel that she is still being loved by u always.
for now, whatever i do with #2 eg breastfeeding or change diaper, i will tell #1 so that she felt involved and not feeling neglected becos of #2. so she just hang ard me and watch.. only 1 occasion that she accidentally "knock" into her mei mei head..... otherwise, we always teach her to kiss mei mei and she will make the "muacks" sound.
kitsune,
actually i din drink papaya fish soup cos i order confinement food. i c-sect so cannot take chicken and they give me porky soup mostly. see pork until scare now. but so far supply is quite good regardless what soup they give me cos i just let #2 suck non-stop during the first week. think my baby sucker really the one makes supply more than any soup bah?

as for maid, i got her in 2-3mths b4 i popped. don't expect them to be a good cook for confinement food. maybe boil the red date tea still ok for them bah? my maid is from myanmar and i send her to counselling session 2 times liao cos she machiam like robot. after i gave birth, hubby took 3 days leave to teach maid to shower bb, diaper changing n bottle feed EBM. now maid take over these activities but she still need to be told when and what to do. think can't blame her also cos 23yrs single wont know how to take care of bb rite?..
angelsky,
u must be counting down ya!! it's rainy season lately so when ur time comes, even more cooling!!