Hi Constance,
ya man, i felt exactly the same! i tot i'll go mad facing all 3 24/7..wah they scream, fight, cry..make me so boiling i take the cane n wack them

. then i also on disney playhse for them while i glued to the com... tt's y i say i felt useless... not making money yet not making good use of my time w the children.
hi baby,
yup no one will "hiam" to hv more money, I'm contemplating part time job, so will talk to my boss b4 going back to work in another 2-3mths time.
Hi ankh,
wah so u devoted! but if u go back to work can still TBF? i did that with my #1 n 2 coz my co very pro BF...so i was able to pump 3x a day for my gals till abt 16-18mths when i got preg n ready to stop bf.
Hi botanist,
you are very disciplined! I had all the flash thingy and wat not...but i nvr used them!! i had a set still sitting on the shelve wrapped up with original packing since 4 yrs ago! tt's y i tot i'll b like constance, just on tv for them while i rot away too.
I tot of home biz, but i cant think of wat to do..i'm very good w my hands haha i tot of making nursing shawl

...my mum has made 2 for me in nicer material n colour then busybaby! i tell her can do biz hahahha
Hi steffitan, hen,
I can already feel "jealous" now talking to my working friends!! they are changing jobs and making good money whereas i m at home rotting away..however i also feel like spending more time w the kids n i tell myself to do something meaningful! n i agree loh, when we see them smiling and so close to us, its all worth it. like both of u, i shld hv a quite good career, so if i give it up now, i m not sure what kind of role i can get into few yrs later...or i'l nvr ret to work force? the tot of it abit scary
hi ginger,
you are soooo funny, but i totally agree w u!! pp tend to think we do notihng but nap n behav like aunty hahahahah. ay, my hb think i do nothing except do online shopping

. yes yes!! b4 i went for my maternity leave my very snr mngr actually encourage me to b a sahm coz her mum was 1 and she appreciated all her mum has done for her n her bros. This snr mgr really worked well w me n she really liked me (hehe thick skinned) but she say for the better of my future she encourage me to b sahm haha... she said the same, the co wil not rem u even u work 24hrs for it..but ur family will.
then again i salute pp who can strike a balance btw work n fam such that they still spend quality time w the kids. i'm for 1, cant. i used to spend so much time on work that i only ret to bath n take quick dinner (sometimes no dinner) then less then an hr or 2 my kids are off to bed liao. i'll b so tired that i cant even spend quality time with them.
all of u mummies gave real good advice...its so close to my heart, abt wat i really want...though some of u chose to work, the reasons are also exactly wat's stopping me from being sahm...those of u who chose to b sahm yr reasons are also those that make me want to b sahm..ultimately, i feel the time spent w kids, can nvr be bought with $.
sigh.... i guess i need to spend more time thinking wat i really want! thanks!
BTW, can I be added to the yahoo mailing list, I'm not sure who is the organizer but here is my email
[email protected] thanks!
also wat is the home add thingy for? telok blangah is wat area hehe, south?