jovialz, oops..sorry.. got mistaken with the both Cs...heehee...
twinkle & ecookie, i got a CL to help out. initially a lot of conflicts, did not really get along well, lots of complaints etc.. but after she left, we realised we did have a good 1st month and have plenty of rest. she help to look after bb, do housework, cook etc.. without her, it is really very tiring... but must close 1 eye... if i have #2, will get CL as well..