Choco,
At this stage, they could eat most of the things liao..
Green vege:
brocolli
spinach
kangkong
lettuce
bai chai
nai bai
asparagus
xi yang chai
just chop chop and dump into the porridge
All the vege is harmless just let them eat.
Xman,
I would suggest maybe u need to keep an eye on ruoxi whenever she is out, but try not to overprotect, see if she could self defence
Again, just make sure she didnt get hurt that's all.
i.e if sb snatches her things, remember to tell her to go and take it back! encourage her more. Maybe at home u can talk to her more about that?
I rem that day during playdays trial, one babe pulled meg's hair (can't remember whose babe keke) then her reaction was to turn around and see who pull her hair and grabbed him kekeke...
Is she learning self-defence?
Actually everyday if i see sth or maybe just happened on tv, i always make it a topic to talk to her..
like: "u see that boy, so naughty, next time you cannot be like that bla bla bla.." she listens to me everytime when i am talking, but i dunno if she gets it..
anywya, no harm trying, just tell her what is right and what is wrong.. u might try this method..
Actually my FIL has the same opinion as you, he told me if meg doesnt really walk and talk very stably yet, dun send her to childcare, coz she is a girl, if she falls or knocked on sth, really pity her, and somemore she is a girl.. if let's say got scar not nice liao rite.. i think u have to consider, see what is the best for ruoxi k. Now i am still not sure if i were to send meg to childcare when #2 is born..