Traz: I think you shd get a maid asap too. Don't wait til your confinement. Cos by then, you'll have to cope with another baby + the 2 existing ones, where got time to teach and coach? It would be good if during this time the maid has picked up some basic stuff and routines, and you can continue to coach her during your confinement.
Frm now til confinement, that's still 6more mths away leh..
As for Philly or Indo, I'm biased. Get a Philly, cos you have 3 kids and better if someone can speak english to them.
As for whether Philly is smarter and can geng or not, this really depends on heng , suay. There's no telling. Indo maids are much slower to teach, and can vomit blood kind cos of the language barrier.