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give u some tips.
DisneyLand (DL)
Monsters Inc. - everybody will dash to get fastpass for this one, it's on right side after u enter thru World Bazzar. follow the crowd. the other 2 popular rides are Buzz Lightyear and Winnie the Pooh. the strategy is 1 of u get fastpass, the other queue at the next popular ride. so when 1 of u queue fastpass for Monsters, go queue for Winnie the Pooh. Buzz Lightyear shld still be able to get fastpass. the timing for the 2nd fastpass will be stated on the 1st fastpass u get.
DisneySea (DS)
most of the exciting rides not suitable for our kids. even M also got a fright fr 20,000 leagues under the sea. fastpass available for Magic Lamp at Arabian Coast and Mermaid Lagoon shows which are more family friendly. the rides at Mermaid Lagoon and Arabian Coast r more toddler friendly. at Port Discovery, can go for Aquatopia. this one very fun. we all enjoyed it. Turtle Talk is all Japanese talk, unless u u/s Jap, can skip this. Stormrider is interesting, even Jo enjoyed it.
useful websites
http://www15.plala.or.jp/gcap/disney/ (in Japanese only) - this website is gd, it tells u the suitability of the rides for each age group, fastpass timing, expected crowd level at DL and DS.
http://www.tokyo-top-guide.com/Tokyo_Disneyland.html - tips on how to tackle DL and DS - i found this site a little too late, the day we were flying.
since u r staying Hilton (i assume u stay Wed & Thu nite?), u shld try to be early to queue for entry. suggest 1 of u go earlier (there's shuttle bus) to queue, while u can go a little later w ur girl, so that she no need to wait too long. u will purchase ur tix at the hotel...
hmmm... i jus rmbr smthg.. u hv been to Tokyo Disney Resort before right?