bbmar,
your MIL is a good teacher!
Huajing,
ok, since u already have a plan, then don't have to feel bad. just wait till your #2 settle. But hor, just a thought, maybe u should send Elisha to CC now BEFORE your #2 comes out. That's what I hear from a friend.. she says she will not send her #1 to CC, precisely because she is having #2 as she doesn't want her #1 to feel that just because there is a new baby, so she has to go to school and not be with mummy.. as in, my friend is afraid her #1 will feel 'abandon' in the school if she send her there after new baby is out.
Anyway, I think there are many kinds of theories and what other people feel, do or say.. As long as both you and hubby is firm on a decision, then can liao. Sometimes also cannot think too much.