Astro,
i re-read your post about you say that "such needs of Teng is fulfilled by ellie and your mom".. I just want to say, you may be in for a surprise..
cos usually, my maid is the one who plays with him after dinner.. play as in, play toys, read books, play stickers etc.. and normally EJ will also look for papa to do things with.. so that's why I surprised that he insists that i draw with him. but then again, could be because after we bought the desk, i started off with colouring/drawing with him on the desk.. so he associates that with me. Oh well!
Good night all!