hi hi. good morning. Ohio!!!
same same, tian still rejects milk, etc etc.. still feeding her in sleeps (super difficult). she is also very smart when sleeping.. turn here turn there then can never be able to feed her.
Unable to finish archive yet then i wanna comment liao.
Bbgirl, u are right. i interpreted the same thing as astro when i read that article. cause u know ah, me myself internally in my heart already have that kindof "ai4 de3 jiao4 yu4" of perception.. I truely believe that children can be molded by us if they have gained enough trusts in us as parents. somehow, i am a bit shaky though, u can tell la. haha!!! super dilemma la.
e.g. When tian snatching hb's spec, hb kept saying NO! cannot. but i said, this one is not FUN at all, mama give u something more fun to play with. Then i NEVER want to emphasize the bad thing that she had done. Dunno if this work la, but i trying lor.
Autum, i love u. i felt a bit hard on myself and started to do some reflections. after that, i realised that i am also torn between discipline or not.. firm or not. want or not, can or not? then i remembered a documentary that I've seen before. human's brain (behaviour) is actually there when we were born. Then, hou4 tian1's environment can also shape it. However, its a matter of how we retrieve the data etc etc.. something like AGGRESSIVENESS is in born, then we can TRAIN someone to consciously reduce its aggressiveness by mental conditioninng. .. too long. dun want to elaborate la.. unless u all interested.
Mash, then u dun be paisey, just make comments in front of Dr ong, i think she will help u elaborate...