Girls, my colleagues have warned me against rubbing my tummy (like sayang BB) cos' one of them claimed that she m/ced in her 1st pregnancy after she kept doing that. I got quite worried so have been refraining from that. Even now when I rub on my Clarins oil, I do it in upward motion and very quickly, whereas I used to rub and rub until all absorbed into skin. My hubby thinks I'm going nuts. Have u all heard anything like that?
(2007/01) Jan
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aquarius_888
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zenn, i tried before...not too bad...
aquarius_888
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Alethea...never hear before leh.
My stretchmark cream got to apply in circular motion. The brand same as icylemon.
My stretchmark cream got to apply in circular motion. The brand same as icylemon.
aquarius_888
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zenn...I bought the one to increase appetite one...especially good for kids I think.
Milderina / Icylemon,
Yah i always press here and there to feel for my bb when i am lying on the bed ley.. Just wanna figure out which side is my bb at then.. Hahaha.. I dare to do tat cos i realise that sometimes during my scan, my gynae also presses down quite firmly lor.. Should be safe since our bb well protected by womb and amniotic fluid..
Icylemon,
I also attended my uncle's wedding ley.. Nt so close fren most likely i will turn down lah.. But hor if own relatives one i will try to attend unless its those "white" occassions then i wont attend at all lor!
When i was in my 2nd trimester (for my first pregnancy), my sil's mil passed away I also nvr attend the funeral thou we were quite close.. My mom actually dont even allow my hubby to attend one... But we feel that i am the one who should avoid only mah so hubby went ahead to attend the funeral after the first day.
Yah i always press here and there to feel for my bb when i am lying on the bed ley.. Just wanna figure out which side is my bb at then.. Hahaha.. I dare to do tat cos i realise that sometimes during my scan, my gynae also presses down quite firmly lor.. Should be safe since our bb well protected by womb and amniotic fluid..
Icylemon,
I also attended my uncle's wedding ley.. Nt so close fren most likely i will turn down lah.. But hor if own relatives one i will try to attend unless its those "white" occassions then i wont attend at all lor!
When i was in my 2nd trimester (for my first pregnancy), my sil's mil passed away I also nvr attend the funeral thou we were quite close.. My mom actually dont even allow my hubby to attend one... But we feel that i am the one who should avoid only mah so hubby went ahead to attend the funeral after the first day.
I actually feel very comforted rubbing my tummy, like bonding with my BBs. That was until those colleagues warned me against it. Think they meant well, but I was like 'Huh? Like that also cannot, so illogical!' But then again, pregnany women usually more paranoid, mah, so at least in their presence, I try not to rub-rub.
preg_4_a_2nd_one
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Hi Aquarius,
Mayb you want to put a stalk of red rose beside your bed.
For me, my gal was super clingy and cranky during my 1st trimester. She will wake up 3 to 4 times in the middle of the nite. She will want me to hug her to sleep. So my MIL told me that she is fighting for attention with her unborn sibling. So she told me to put a stalk of rose in the bed room and it helps. My daughter still clingy to me but she does not wake up in the middle of the night anymore.
The stalk of rose is believe to have thorns so bb will dare not come and touch.
Mayb you want to put a stalk of red rose beside your bed.
For me, my gal was super clingy and cranky during my 1st trimester. She will wake up 3 to 4 times in the middle of the nite. She will want me to hug her to sleep. So my MIL told me that she is fighting for attention with her unborn sibling. So she told me to put a stalk of rose in the bed room and it helps. My daughter still clingy to me but she does not wake up in the middle of the night anymore.
The stalk of rose is believe to have thorns so bb will dare not come and touch.
aquarius_888
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icylemon, not only darker but also bigger.
Zenn, ok I will let you know...I din cook the stuff so cannot advise you.
My mil cook one.
Zenn, ok I will let you know...I din cook the stuff so cannot advise you.
My mil cook one.
aquarius_888
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Preg 4...thanks for the tips
...my son still sleeps thru but lately keep bullying his daddy. But he will still listen to me. I also told him I will still love him as much as before even with arrival of baby.
aquarius_888
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Any mummies here play mj?
aquarius_888
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Zenn, I like to play MJ and still playing quite frequently cos I have a few neighbours at my area here who comes over to my place to play.
aquarius_888
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wah...at first I dun dare to ask one cos some dun like mj...looks like there are mj players here.
aquarius_888
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wow one more! now enough for one table already kekekek...anyone else?
hahaha.. me also mj lover ley.. but usually play wf my hubby's family and my aunties lor.. My gal frens nt really good at mj lah..
Talking abt mj, yest nite i just quarrelled wf my bil after our mj session... Usually i quite cool even if i lost 200+ but yest i was damn fed-up lor.. He raised his voice so i quarrelled wf him.. Think hor i get super mood swings recently.
I also dun like to listen to my hubby's grumbling and complaints ley.. Usually i will listen and give advice now i get so frustrated whenever he complaint to me lor.. Seems that our conversation all abt his grievances and nothing happy to talk abt lor.. Haiz..
Talking abt mj, yest nite i just quarrelled wf my bil after our mj session... Usually i quite cool even if i lost 200+ but yest i was damn fed-up lor.. He raised his voice so i quarrelled wf him.. Think hor i get super mood swings recently.
I also dun like to listen to my hubby's grumbling and complaints ley.. Usually i will listen and give advice now i get so frustrated whenever he complaint to me lor.. Seems that our conversation all abt his grievances and nothing happy to talk abt lor.. Haiz..
serrich, understandable la, sometimes when we already lose money already not very good mood liao then people still come and talk bird-talk, like what my hubby says. hahahahahaha... Try to keep cool and calm for bb ok?
for your hubby, maybe you can voice out and tell him your unhappiness. Sometimes my hubby will tell me I'm complaining too much about my work and am neglecting him, then I will take note and change the topic lo.
Think your hubby will understand ba.
for your hubby, maybe you can voice out and tell him your unhappiness. Sometimes my hubby will tell me I'm complaining too much about my work and am neglecting him, then I will take note and change the topic lo.
hi all,
ahhaa... tlaking abt MJ now... I'm oso a fan of MJ... recently stop playing coz of MS and can;t sit long.... then play the computer one!!! No kick! Anyway, booking on National day to play MJ with family already... heheheee....
Milderina,
I had an appt with Dr Chen tml. Fixed last time but i already signed up with my gynae liao leh, still thinking wanna go not...
ahhaa... tlaking abt MJ now... I'm oso a fan of MJ... recently stop playing coz of MS and can;t sit long.... then play the computer one!!! No kick! Anyway, booking on National day to play MJ with family already... heheheee....
Milderina,
I had an appt with Dr Chen tml. Fixed last time but i already signed up with my gynae liao leh, still thinking wanna go not...
aquarius_888
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serrich...you also mj lover!
dun get angry lah...why your bil raised his voice? but hor mj is a game that can show the true and ugly side of a person. I am now not on talking terms with my sil becos of mj too. but she also character problem type...all her relatives know it...even her own parents know it but afterall still their daughter mah...so they just kept quiet.
blue_genie
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re-hi everyone!
back frm meeting already.
bz reading the previous posts...oh, sleep on left side gd for BB...ok, i try to sleep on left side if possible.
back frm meeting already.
bz reading the previous posts...oh, sleep on left side gd for BB...ok, i try to sleep on left side if possible.
aquarius_888
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looks like a lot of mj lovers here!
I have a game tonight but will let my hubby play.
Maybe I play on Sat night.
mummies,
Have you all decided if you wanna use epidural? (assuming that you are opting for natural birth) I've been thinking about it leh, then yesterday Ginny Phang came to give a talk at my company on birth matters, so now thinking about my options even more. heh. For me, stupid as it is, I think I will try to tong until I cannot tong lor, because I'm very scared of the epidural needle (heard it's huge) and the side effects. One colleague told me she keep shivering nonstop, my cousin advised me not to take because she lost all sensation and couldn't push.
Have you all decided if you wanna use epidural? (assuming that you are opting for natural birth) I've been thinking about it leh, then yesterday Ginny Phang came to give a talk at my company on birth matters, so now thinking about my options even more. heh. For me, stupid as it is, I think I will try to tong until I cannot tong lor, because I'm very scared of the epidural needle (heard it's huge) and the side effects. One colleague told me she keep shivering nonstop, my cousin advised me not to take because she lost all sensation and couldn't push.
blue_genie
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sheryl: heard that epidural got side effects right? dunno whether it's true or not..
aquarius_888
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sherl...I took epidural for first pregnancy...it helps me to relax more thus my dilation is faster...else I worried will be emergency c-section as mine was induced birth. I find no real side effect...
Anyway you won't be able to see the needle one...it's not really painful too...like ant bite...imagine I took epidural when hubby not around...that means only me, the nurse and the doctor. I also scared then but went ahead with it. Then near to delivery time, gynae turn off the epidural so will still have strength to push.
Anyway you won't be able to see the needle one...it's not really painful too...like ant bite...imagine I took epidural when hubby not around...that means only me, the nurse and the doctor. I also scared then but went ahead with it. Then near to delivery time, gynae turn off the epidural so will still have strength to push.
aquarius_888
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sherl...my after effect was...puking but only once.
hahaha ladies, dun worry i am fine now.. Just dunno wat got over me yest ley.. We usually make remarks like "how come u throw this let him eat/win, etc" lor.. He made his bro a remark "Y u always throw to let pple win one." So when its his turn to throw and let other players win i said the same thing lor.. Somemore all quite big tai one lor.. Ping hu, 3 tai, 4 tai mah.. sure pissed rite?! After game he said he buay song, almost wanted to turn table lor.. then he said i lose lesser than him still make so much noise.. Prob is how come he can complain, i cant? i lose lesser cos i am rarely the gunner mah!! Imagine i only won 1x 3 tai, 1x 2 tai and abt 2x 1 tai self pick.. Haiz.. actually i was ok after the game lor.. dunno y he super buay song started to raise his voice then i quarrel wf him one lah.. Usually if i losing a lot i just buay song my luck is down lor.. hardly pick quarrel one ley..
aqua,
dunnoe what happened to my cousin leh, but she say she had no strength to push. Did you opt for epi straightaway or try to do it drug-free first? kekekekeke.... some mummies were saying if you know sure cannot tahan then might as well just administer straight from the start, otherwise you administer at the beginning and after 12 hours or labour, also pay same price, not worth. kekekekekekekke But think first time, I still wanna experience labour pain first la, pain first talk later...
zenn, very scary hor, sometimes I wonder what I've gotten myself into leh. kekekekekekekeke
dunnoe what happened to my cousin leh, but she say she had no strength to push. Did you opt for epi straightaway or try to do it drug-free first? kekekekeke.... some mummies were saying if you know sure cannot tahan then might as well just administer straight from the start, otherwise you administer at the beginning and after 12 hours or labour, also pay same price, not worth. kekekekekekekke But think first time, I still wanna experience labour pain first la, pain first talk later...
zenn, very scary hor, sometimes I wonder what I've gotten myself into leh. kekekekekekekeke
zenn,
Is it cos ur bra too tight tats y u feel uncomfortable??
aquarius,
Your sil so bad-tempered one arh?? How come not talking wf sil leow? Dun find it weird if dun talk meh??
U so lucky got a successful induction.. Mine was nt successful.. Ended up emerg c-section lor. Tats y this time round i might be gg for planned c-section so tt hubby can be by my side during the op.
Is it cos ur bra too tight tats y u feel uncomfortable??
aquarius,
Your sil so bad-tempered one arh?? How come not talking wf sil leow? Dun find it weird if dun talk meh??
U so lucky got a successful induction.. Mine was nt successful.. Ended up emerg c-section lor. Tats y this time round i might be gg for planned c-section so tt hubby can be by my side during the op.
aquarius_888
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sherl...I opt for it after about 7 hrs and dilation only at 2cm...cos I burst the waterbag already but dilation too slow...I din really feel much pain except when the nurse tried to burst my waterbag but din managed to...that's when I use the 'laughing gas' but it's too painful until I liu2 yan2 lei4...in the end the nurse gave up...wait for my gynae to do it...gynae only tried once and water bag burst...not painful somemore! After that gynae say if want to administer better do it soon...so I say ok...ask for epidural at 9am plus...by 1pm plus ready to deliver already. I even managed to take a short nap after administering the epidural. Can feel contraction pain when the epidural was turned off.
aquarius_888
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aquarius_888
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zenn, ya...unbelievable right? Then she commented why her parents cannot stay with us, cannot stay with BIL but must stay with her. But actually she, herself volunteered to let her parents stay with her when they sold their flat...becos at that time they needed a favour from my PIL. And also becos my PIL agreed to pay her a sum of money for staying with her...that is to cover their electrical bill etc.
