Zenn, rice wine or DOM can take...but in moderation. Add abit to the dishes will do if you intend to BF.
Coz alcohol go to the blood stream and go directly to breast milk.
(but other food go direct to our stomach)If drink alot, you will have a 'drunken' baby...which will sleep & sleep.
On the other hand, it will affect his/her brain & other organs.
TMC sisters Lim asked us to only take 1 table spoon of DOM - max. As for rice wine, alcohol contain not so high, so can add a bit more if you want.
That is why, sometimes better to standby some FM...like me, if I consume any alcohol, I will express and throw it away.