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preg_4_a_2nd_one
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Serrich,
Yeah, gals are indeed closer to mummies. I was hoping to close shop at 2 if it is a boy. But my hubby keep wanting to have 3 kids. But i scare 3rd one also gal. Then pengz. So i tell hubby, if got confirm is boy for no 3, i may consider trying for 3rd one before i reach 30 in 5 years time.
haha, really scare of pregnancy as this one is not a really smooth sailing one.
Yeah, gals are indeed closer to mummies. I was hoping to close shop at 2 if it is a boy. But my hubby keep wanting to have 3 kids. But i scare 3rd one also gal. Then pengz. So i tell hubby, if got confirm is boy for no 3, i may consider trying for 3rd one before i reach 30 in 5 years time.
haha, really scare of pregnancy as this one is not a really smooth sailing one.
Imagine u're peeing halfway, and u've got to hold your pee. That's when u need to tighen your vaginal muscles. So during this exercise (don't do when u're peeing), just tighten your muscles there, for about 5 secs, then release and repeat this for about 10 times for each set of pelvin floor exercise.
bluegrapes
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Icy, I have that kinda of problem too. Have already cleared bladder but still have the sensation of wanting to pass urine. Heard that is normal for preggies to experience weak urinal. Doing more pelvic floor exercise should help. Do update your gynae on your condition and see what she has to advice.
Mummies, I like name ending with 'cia' like Tricia, Alicia, Felicia, Patricia but these names have been taken up by friends or relatives around me leh.
Got any suggestion along that line?
Mummies, I like name ending with 'cia' like Tricia, Alicia, Felicia, Patricia but these names have been taken up by friends or relatives around me leh.
Icy,
I go ask my hubby how much first hor! But i dun have picture of it ley.. it's still intact in the original box..
Y u stop swimming? It's a very good form of exercise for preggies ley.. I still enjoy my swimming sessions very much.. Kekeke..
Alethea,
Ur hubby so funni.. Can relate Jaron to Jurong. My DH also abt the same lah.. I told him i shortlisted Sapphire & Rosalyn. He said Sapphire sounds weird, might as well call Gold or Diamond even better.. Then Rosalyn he also dun like.. So now i dun have any names in my list except for Shania(intended to gave this name to my #1 but later agree on Sherilyn).. Haiz.. He say he will go and find his "mi zi" for nicer and beautiful names.. So KNS rite??
I go ask my hubby how much first hor! But i dun have picture of it ley.. it's still intact in the original box..
Y u stop swimming? It's a very good form of exercise for preggies ley.. I still enjoy my swimming sessions very much.. Kekeke..
Alethea,
Ur hubby so funni.. Can relate Jaron to Jurong. My DH also abt the same lah.. I told him i shortlisted Sapphire & Rosalyn. He said Sapphire sounds weird, might as well call Gold or Diamond even better.. Then Rosalyn he also dun like.. So now i dun have any names in my list except for Shania(intended to gave this name to my #1 but later agree on Sherilyn).. Haiz.. He say he will go and find his "mi zi" for nicer and beautiful names.. So KNS rite??
bluegrapes
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icylemon, not sure if it has anything to do with blood circulation. I think probably it could help if you pick up swimming.
bluegrapes
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Sherl, thanks for your suggestion. Will tell my hb abt it and see what he says..keke
icylemon
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mummies yesterday i was reading the newpaper. article abt this indian mummy lost her baby stillborn. her baby girl was 8 mths liao leh. end of this month she will delivered at KKH. she complaint abt the responsive of KKH.
i read liao oso very scare. keep asking my girl to give me a kick. after tat she really kick me. feel better after her kick. hahaha...
i read liao oso very scare. keep asking my girl to give me a kick. after tat she really kick me. feel better after her kick. hahaha...
aquarius_888
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icy, Alethea has posted the method.
morning!! 2 more days to detailed scan.
naming my girl Bianca
btw robinson got 20% sale until next week iirc, not sure if storewide or just baby items though. yesterday i saw this really nice baby cot-bed and another lady walk pass with her hb "see i told u baby bed v cheap only $159" then me and my mom laughed cos the price is "$1159" lol. saw a baby cot-bed for sale now @ $299 + classic pooh bedding and mattress, worth anot?
naming my girl Bianca
btw robinson got 20% sale until next week iirc, not sure if storewide or just baby items though. yesterday i saw this really nice baby cot-bed and another lady walk pass with her hb "see i told u baby bed v cheap only $159" then me and my mom laughed cos the price is "$1159" lol. saw a baby cot-bed for sale now @ $299 + classic pooh bedding and mattress, worth anot?
icylemon,
A lot of people on this forum has also complained about the responsiveness of KKH in this kind of situation before. Read before the story of one mummy who was forced to deliver her 5-mth still-born by herself and with only hubby by her side, because the nurses never put her on priority, never call the doc down for her. Very sad hor.
I dun think the hospital is completely wrong la, because after all the 'live' emergencies are the hospital's priority, but I feel that they can be much more sensitive about handling this kind of matters lo, cannot just chuck the mother one side or tell her to her face that "you are not important to us anymore since your baby is already dead."
A lot of people on this forum has also complained about the responsiveness of KKH in this kind of situation before. Read before the story of one mummy who was forced to deliver her 5-mth still-born by herself and with only hubby by her side, because the nurses never put her on priority, never call the doc down for her. Very sad hor.
I dun think the hospital is completely wrong la, because after all the 'live' emergencies are the hospital's priority, but I feel that they can be much more sensitive about handling this kind of matters lo, cannot just chuck the mother one side or tell her to her face that "you are not important to us anymore since your baby is already dead."
alethea, at robinsons. i saw the same one around at Kiddy's palace, but this one comes with free mattress and bedding, so not sure yet. but if buy now then no space to put cos need to throw and change some furnitures in my room... but my mom says now cannot adjust any furniture in the room, so it has to be done in the 2 days i go deliver baby lo :S
kkh -> insensitive to patient's feelings? i think that's very bad. they may see many of these cases in a week but for that couple it's a totally different experience.
kkh -> insensitive to patient's feelings? i think that's very bad. they may see many of these cases in a week but for that couple it's a totally different experience.
Icylemon/Sherl,
my cousin was "force" to abort her first bb during 3-4mths.. cos doc say her bb not normal.. she dun even have time to think.. they push her into theatre liao... she was so lost, cos its still early in the morning n her hb wasnt there yet.. after that incident, she change to MAH..
her bb also suffer a lot in KKH during an operation there.. haiz.. think back also angry w them...
my cousin was "force" to abort her first bb during 3-4mths.. cos doc say her bb not normal.. she dun even have time to think.. they push her into theatre liao... she was so lost, cos its still early in the morning n her hb wasnt there yet.. after that incident, she change to MAH..
her bb also suffer a lot in KKH during an operation there.. haiz.. think back also angry w them...
bluegrapes
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hi msn_queen, ya..gotta pay to change IC but not a substantial amount.
Alethea,
But no matter what, me and hubby have already decided, if we find out that baby got any serious problem or what we will probably transfer to KKH lo. Coz for the really serious matters KKH is still the premier hospital to go to, the other hospitals may not have the facilities to handle, and they will still transfer you to KKH.
But no matter what, me and hubby have already decided, if we find out that baby got any serious problem or what we will probably transfer to KKH lo. Coz for the really serious matters KKH is still the premier hospital to go to, the other hospitals may not have the facilities to handle, and they will still transfer you to KKH.
Oh, is it? But they will still charge u A-class rates, cos' transfer from pte hospital, right?
My concern initially was cost, so tawt of their B-class wards, cos' if transfer to their A-class, the rates are abt the same as pte. But from what u've said, should the unfortunate happen, BBs' health is the most impt.
My concern initially was cost, so tawt of their B-class wards, cos' if transfer to their A-class, the rates are abt the same as pte. But from what u've said, should the unfortunate happen, BBs' health is the most impt.
Mummies
I am suffering from very bad backache recently.
For my first baby, I only get backache in my last tri. And usually the ache is stll bearable. Just need to sit down or lie down to rest. And to aviod walking long distant.
However, now... only in my 20 weeks, and I'm suffering fm damn bad backache.
I couldn't even stand for more then 5 to 10mins.
The pain is killing me... and worst of all, something is pressing on my nerves.
I did suffer fm nerves pressing in my first pregnancy, around my 6th mths. Imagine I have to carry umbrella around whenever I walk ...coz of sudden sharp pain, I will fall down without any strenght to even support myself. (that lasted for abt 1 mth)
NOw am worried of the 2 combination - backache & nerve pressing...seems like these 2 are starting to combine together. which also mean my life will be badly affected...might need to stay at home to rest, no walking around.
I am suffering from very bad backache recently.
For my first baby, I only get backache in my last tri. And usually the ache is stll bearable. Just need to sit down or lie down to rest. And to aviod walking long distant.
However, now... only in my 20 weeks, and I'm suffering fm damn bad backache.
I couldn't even stand for more then 5 to 10mins.
The pain is killing me... and worst of all, something is pressing on my nerves.
I did suffer fm nerves pressing in my first pregnancy, around my 6th mths. Imagine I have to carry umbrella around whenever I walk ...coz of sudden sharp pain, I will fall down without any strenght to even support myself. (that lasted for abt 1 mth)
NOw am worried of the 2 combination - backache & nerve pressing...seems like these 2 are starting to combine together. which also mean my life will be badly affected...might need to stay at home to rest, no walking around.
aquarius_888
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baby_milk, take care...for my first baby, I suffered from backache at the second month cos I injured my back before...I cannot lie straight if I do, when I try to get up I will feel a very sharp pain...this pregnancy also cannot lie straight for too long else will feel the aching.
Ladies,
re: KKH
Hmm, i oso dunno whether there is different treatment for the different class. For my DD, i opt for A class ward, very satisfied with their svc lor. & oso, i remember my gynae came at 7am every am to check on me. Even at the delivery suite, the mid wife actually forgo her lunch coz i was able to deliver. This time round, i will still be opting for A1 ward, coz wanted hb & DD to stay with me.
baby_milk,
I do have backache.. but was wondering was it becoz of the epidural last time. haha since it doesnt really disappear b4. nonetheless, this time round, i feel pain lower left down. Dunno Y? Then i oso got rashes.. arghh.. hated tt. Hehe (touchwood) no big red nose like last pregnancy though. & so far, no swollen legs.. hopefully wont have oso.
Oh, my elder sis, who is 7 mths preggie now oso got terrible backache like u. she goes to "tui na" quite often now, seems it helps to ease her pain. Maybe u can try prenatal massage?
re: KKH
Hmm, i oso dunno whether there is different treatment for the different class. For my DD, i opt for A class ward, very satisfied with their svc lor. & oso, i remember my gynae came at 7am every am to check on me. Even at the delivery suite, the mid wife actually forgo her lunch coz i was able to deliver. This time round, i will still be opting for A1 ward, coz wanted hb & DD to stay with me.
baby_milk,
I do have backache.. but was wondering was it becoz of the epidural last time. haha since it doesnt really disappear b4. nonetheless, this time round, i feel pain lower left down. Dunno Y? Then i oso got rashes.. arghh.. hated tt. Hehe (touchwood) no big red nose like last pregnancy though. & so far, no swollen legs.. hopefully wont have oso.
Oh, my elder sis, who is 7 mths preggie now oso got terrible backache like u. she goes to "tui na" quite often now, seems it helps to ease her pain. Maybe u can try prenatal massage?
milderina
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Ladies,
The carter's rompers 5 pcs for $12 will be back soon. Just received an email from reading room. Watch out for this the thread here if u are interested. http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/450761/450761.html?1157939381
The carter's rompers 5 pcs for $12 will be back soon. Just received an email from reading room. Watch out for this the thread here if u are interested. http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/450761/450761.html?1157939381
aquarius_888
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Milde...mine also tailbone area.
aquarius_888
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milde...thanks...got that email too. I am supposed to transfer to RR but forgot...think I will wait for the spree then transfer.
preg_4_a_2nd_one
New Member
Serrich
Whoa you very brave. Planning for number 3 liao. I dun dare to think about it man.
Baby milk,
check with your gynae what is wrong.
Whoa you very brave. Planning for number 3 liao. I dun dare to think about it man.
Baby milk,
check with your gynae what is wrong.
Found this from another thread http://www.womenfitness.net/preg_myths.htm
bb_milk,
Ask ur hubby to help u massage ur back if u're having frequent backaches.. I also sometimes experience aches at tailbone area.. But after i started swimming it seems to get better ley.. Now i dun really experience much backaches.
Icy,
I also have the same pbm as u ley.. Sometimes i sneeze will exp urine leakage.. Bladder always feel full in day.. At nite still ok ley.. Only need to wake up once at most but nt very occassional.. strange hor?! i tot at nite will pee quite often one.. Hahahaha..
Ask ur hubby to help u massage ur back if u're having frequent backaches.. I also sometimes experience aches at tailbone area.. But after i started swimming it seems to get better ley.. Now i dun really experience much backaches.
Icy,
I also have the same pbm as u ley.. Sometimes i sneeze will exp urine leakage.. Bladder always feel full in day.. At nite still ok ley.. Only need to wake up once at most but nt very occassional.. strange hor?! i tot at nite will pee quite often one.. Hahahaha..
<font color="ff0000">Baby Sling,</font>
Think i read abt someone enquiring abt baby sling this morning.. I have a cotton baby sling from momsinmind. Hmmm if any of u intend to buy a baby sling i wouldnt recommend u to buy cotton ones cos it can be real stuffy and hot if u sling ur bb and walk ard.. Do get the cotton sateen or silk ones if u buying..
Think i read abt someone enquiring abt baby sling this morning.. I have a cotton baby sling from momsinmind. Hmmm if any of u intend to buy a baby sling i wouldnt recommend u to buy cotton ones cos it can be real stuffy and hot if u sling ur bb and walk ard.. Do get the cotton sateen or silk ones if u buying..
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