Thanks everyone for your encouragment and sharing. Makes me feel better already that got u gals here to chat
fiona,
lucky so far i haven't hu si luan xiang, but i do get so upset when hubby has to work late, like today, he has a late meeting at 9pm so i cried n cried this afternoon.. but lucky hubby is pretty supportive or trying where he can.. but he cant do much, cuz, he cant breastfeed or pump for me hehehe
ningyo,
i got a 2nd hand MIM sling, but havent use it yet, dun dare to put my boy in yet... any mum's using it now?
cecilia,
thks, so does shopping help?
i always stuck in my house or in my room (we stay in very small flat) n after my/baby check up i go straight home cuz hubby sends me.
who do u gals go with for checkups? cuz of jaundice, i have to bring bb back each week. next week will be my next chance to get out.
Augbaby,
we feel the same!
i oso just want to go out for quick coffee session with hubby, cuz he is oso bored to go w/o me. but not feel safe to leave CL alone in our house.. actually we dun know anything about her etc. how if she steals something etc? sigh... oso dun wan to make it tough on my mum... maybe i just have to hang in there till CL goes back..
really looking forward to a simple outing like u described..
Jesline,
my CL said sometimes the spots are due to breastfeeding cuz baby face smack against out breasts, and get milk rub on, so 'dirty'..but if just clean away with water will be fine
skyblue,
oh dear...hope u are coping fine then... is your helper a nanny or maid?
Augbaby - again
thanks for your HUGS... hugs back..
i prob not be BF baby once back to work.. i am not so Wei Da.. cant cope..but i am expressing now and freezing some milk hope can last a few more weeks for bb.
Noe,
i am into my 3rd week n looks like clearing finally switched to normal pads.. hehe make me feel better too.. n i stopped using the big maternity disposable panties... i realise all these little things make me feel frumpy and upset..
sigh, must slowly find things to cheer myself up and remove those that cause me blues..
erin00,
good, u should not feel bad at all. i may plan to give up BF even tho my flow is good now. its just not making me any happy.. its so true, i keep waking up at nite now, feelin in pain.. and so sleepy have to look for pump in sterilizer and pump 2-3 times late n thru the nite.
i wan not to cry when BF my bb, i wan him to be happy to if mummy not happy i hope dun affect him.
in fact, at the start, i got sooo Blue cuz i thot i induce my bb out too early, causing him to have lower birth rate n jaundice etc... oso thot i didnt let my bb grow well inside me, didnt prepare properly for the birth, my home not well equip didnt finish my work or even do all the things i wanted to do b4 giving birth. sigh sigh.. all the thot running all over
anyway, another long post for me, sori... i dun get to come online so often so one shot reply as much as possible...
Thanks all again! muakz n hugs