Hi dsii,
I'm still trying to cope wif two, esp my boy is always sick and wants attention all the time. My bb girl is still very young... lucky am staying wif mil... can help out...
mtdt and oc,
I've tried both carrier (my boy) and sling (now for my girl)... I feel sling it's better...more secure and comfy, but need more practice at home first. I bought the sling from MIM and comes wif VCD instruction. If we do meet up someday, I can pass it to you.