Hello mummies,
I need to vent. Please allow me to do so else I will explode.
I have a very bad experience with Shichida!
R recently started his class with SH after being in JG for 3 terms. He is an active boy and cannot sit still. He likes to move around especially dancing and also loves music. Shichida being a very structured type of program did not interested in the SH lessons at all. Now it has reached a stage where he does not even want to step into the classroom and wants to get out of the centre everytime we are there. Every weekend, he will cry no matter how much I persuaded him to attend the lesson.
As such, I seek the help of the staff there. The very 1st time, I call the staff, she told me that I can defer and ask me to call the person in charge of my son. I spoke to him twice in a week and he asked me to try out again last week but my son did not want to attend the class at all. I am supposed to see him but I am being pass to the reception who did not provide any help but ask me to write an email to "CUSTOMER SERVICE". I was very mad because I felt I am being push from pillar to pillar and requested to speak to the management and she asked me to call the manager. As usual, the manager did not call back after I left a message. Two days later, I called for the person in charge, he said he will speak to the management and a few days later, told me that they cannot defer and that there is no such policy! The principal wanted us to try for the whole term and that if next term is still the same, then they will consider to defer it for me. To me, it did not sound reasonable. As a mother, I understand my son's temperament and what he likes and dislikes. True enough that Shichida is a "proven method" but every child is unique in his/her own ways and learning pace is also different. Why do I have to make my son so unhappy every weekend just because he probably dislike it and he is at an age where reasoning does not seem logical yet?
Which parents do not want to give their children a headstart in life? If in the first place, I do not know that there is Shichida, probably my son will be much happier! His unwillingness to attend does not mean anything, just pure unhappy of not liking the lessons. I questioned back the person in charge on why he is so much happier in JG but dislike so much in SH, and the teacher is also not helping at all when she sees him showing no interest?
My point is very simple is that I will like to give my son another chance when he is older, to try out SH again but here I am being force to try it out this term again and then try my luck again the next term to see if my son has improve? I felt that I have not just wasted the money which I can be used for other enrichment classes but also the time and effort to be able to make my son happier.
Sometimes, I wonder whether what SH advocates is being put into practice that LOVE to the children is everything to them. If that is so, then I think they need to take into consideration that every child is different and special and not forcing the children to so something that they do not want to!