haha. MTDT, i remember seeing the scene that u described in dsii's house during the gathering.
for germayn, she will always want to play with the cutlery.. ie she'll purposely drop the spoon, etc on the floor and want us to pick up it up for her, then she'll drop again..and this will go on and on during the meal..
but well... i dont have any ideas leh..haha. paiseh. have been living with this since the twins' time.
i also let germayn walk when im outside with her, only when i'm rushing, or when it is very crowded, then i'll carry her. but she's like... she wouldnt care whether im behind her anot.. she can just roam somewhere else, play with other ppl, and she totally wont look back.