(2006/07) JULY 2006 MTB
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orangecloud
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hi mummies, had been a hectic week for me, besides taking care of bb n fighting d flu virus, was busy running to n fro clinics cos was worried of d blood streaks in bb's stools.
in d end brought her to kkh on fri n they decided to admit her for further observation so i stayed with my bb. luckily was not serious cos d doctor doin his rounds on sat morning found a crack at bb's anus while previous doctors incl me all didn't discover it. he said could be due to bb straining too hard during poo poo time or her stools too hard so d blood came from there, not internal...phew wat a relief! however i was so tired cos u cant really sleep well at d ward tho they provide a foldable bed for parent.
very sian oso cos hubby had been busy with work n will not be hm many nites again due to this IMF event n he had been very sick oso...sigh really hope everyone will get well soon
in d end brought her to kkh on fri n they decided to admit her for further observation so i stayed with my bb. luckily was not serious cos d doctor doin his rounds on sat morning found a crack at bb's anus while previous doctors incl me all didn't discover it. he said could be due to bb straining too hard during poo poo time or her stools too hard so d blood came from there, not internal...phew wat a relief! however i was so tired cos u cant really sleep well at d ward tho they provide a foldable bed for parent.
very sian oso cos hubby had been busy with work n will not be hm many nites again due to this IMF event n he had been very sick oso...sigh really hope everyone will get well soon
im using PIS original, the old version one... dont have to envy me la.. cos it's like.. there's this motivation for me to produce enough for 3. cos my elder twins are always falling ill. then sort of hoping tt bm can help abit... just brought my elder boy to kkh today cos he had high fever..39.2 degree C. abit sad... His sis and he has been falling ill so often lately. and they've been on medication for a few weeks liao... really hate to keep feeding them medicine... it's as if they cant do without it.
1boy_1girl
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hi joykel
i brought my boy to chinese phy too. he said he's very heaty too n the phelgm is from his stomach. stomach weak that's why produce some much phelgm. The medicine is ok but once he had flu or cold again then had to go back to western medicine liao...
i brought my boy to chinese phy too. he said he's very heaty too n the phelgm is from his stomach. stomach weak that's why produce some much phelgm. The medicine is ok but once he had flu or cold again then had to go back to western medicine liao...
1boy_1girl
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Hi Z-lia,
I know one sick will easily pass to the others... how do u cope wif all that? My boy sick i'm very stressed liao... so worried will pass to my bb girl. Each time he wants to come near, i will ask him to go away... so sad... but no choice lor... sometimes he even cough right in front of mei mei... he's still so young (2plus) how to make him understand? Is it normal for kid to vomit out phlegm? I think it's better for them cos after that they will feel better right? But hor... the process is so scary to watch... like he's gonna choked anytime...
I know one sick will easily pass to the others... how do u cope wif all that? My boy sick i'm very stressed liao... so worried will pass to my bb girl. Each time he wants to come near, i will ask him to go away... so sad... but no choice lor... sometimes he even cough right in front of mei mei... he's still so young (2plus) how to make him understand? Is it normal for kid to vomit out phlegm? I think it's better for them cos after that they will feel better right? But hor... the process is so scary to watch... like he's gonna choked anytime...
1boy_1girl
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Hi mummies,
Isnt it tiring to use manual pump? me on medela... pump 180-200ml 25mins every 5hr interval... abt the same as most of u lor...
trying to feed both my children...
Z-lia, cant imagine your superb supply!!!! You must feel very engorged if u dont pump out right?
Isnt it tiring to use manual pump? me on medela... pump 180-200ml 25mins every 5hr interval... abt the same as most of u lor...
trying to feed both my children...
Z-lia, cant imagine your superb supply!!!! You must feel very engorged if u dont pump out right?
mich_liu82
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Hi Mummies,
Check with you all arhz? When does the lochia ends arhz? My baby oreadi coming 8 weeks old liao but I still havin lochia? And when can resume sex huh? (hehe)
Check with you all arhz? When does the lochia ends arhz? My baby oreadi coming 8 weeks old liao but I still havin lochia? And when can resume sex huh? (hehe)
Hi Mich, I have the same question also. Mine still got. It's like one day got than another day dun have..
Btw, What do you all do when you are with baby the whole day? I wanted to "play" with baby but I'm so tired.. I just fed him and hope that he sleep. Nowadays he want milk in 2 hours (or less than 2 hrs). Actually i could try to extend by carry him around give water etc.. but I'm too tired so I just give in and give milk. Is it not right to do this?? It's so tiring ..
Btw, What do you all do when you are with baby the whole day? I wanted to "play" with baby but I'm so tired.. I just fed him and hope that he sleep. Nowadays he want milk in 2 hours (or less than 2 hrs). Actually i could try to extend by carry him around give water etc.. but I'm too tired so I just give in and give milk. Is it not right to do this?? It's so tiring ..
Lucida
u're not alone. on wkends when i care for my bb, i also do the same thing. my bb also gets hungry in 2 hours, sometimes less. i end up giving pacifier just to keep him quiet! i also feel guilty for doing that. hv u tried increasing his feed? i did that this wkend and find that i m able to stretch his feeding time. now, when bb sleeps, i can watch TV or read a book, thank goodness.
u're not alone. on wkends when i care for my bb, i also do the same thing. my bb also gets hungry in 2 hours, sometimes less. i end up giving pacifier just to keep him quiet! i also feel guilty for doing that. hv u tried increasing his feed? i did that this wkend and find that i m able to stretch his feeding time. now, when bb sleeps, i can watch TV or read a book, thank goodness.
Alvina, ya, ure right.. mabbe its better for them to vomit out phlegm.. mabbe it means tt my gal will get better soon...? sigh.. And regarding coping with the 2 kids when they are ill together.. actually, frankly, i think i dont do the coping. haha. i feel my MIL does most of the coping. She's great i must say. I feel tt to some extend, i only consider myself as helping her out. And ya, like ur son, my gal and boy sometimes will cough or sneeze in front of baby. Then i have to ask them to go away also (sometimes scold them). Then my gal cannot scold one. As in, i cannot scold her one.. when i scold her she'll cry and want me to carry her. Then sometimes the twins will be very helpful..like..wanna give their meimei pacifier, etc. but sometimes they will just hold baby's pacifier after sneezing and cleaning their own mucus. so abit scary.
and ya, i'll get engorged if i dont pump after 3 hours. but im more or less used to it. am pumping less often now.. cos gotta help out with taking care of the twins, and am very tired...and lazy. haha.
Mich, heard tt 6 weeks after delivery can resume sex.
Lucida, it's the same here. Everytime after i feed my baby, i'll hope tt she'll slp. But on the other hand, im afraid tt she'll slp too much and wont slp at night. And missmoon, it's the same..i give her the pacifier just to keep her quiet. Then my husband just told me today tt he feels tt im always stuffing her mouth with the pacifier. then for baby it's like.. slp, drink, pacifier, slp, drink..etc
and ya, i'll get engorged if i dont pump after 3 hours. but im more or less used to it. am pumping less often now.. cos gotta help out with taking care of the twins, and am very tired...and lazy. haha.
Mich, heard tt 6 weeks after delivery can resume sex.
Lucida, it's the same here. Everytime after i feed my baby, i'll hope tt she'll slp. But on the other hand, im afraid tt she'll slp too much and wont slp at night. And missmoon, it's the same..i give her the pacifier just to keep her quiet. Then my husband just told me today tt he feels tt im always stuffing her mouth with the pacifier. then for baby it's like.. slp, drink, pacifier, slp, drink..etc
1boy_1girl
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Hi Z-lia,
You r a lucky to have such mil. My mil is helping me too but still i feel so tired all the time cos my boy is very sticky to me.
How do u get such milk supply? Have u been pumping regularly every 3 hrs? How much BM do u give your older kids? How old r your twins?
You r a lucky to have such mil. My mil is helping me too but still i feel so tired all the time cos my boy is very sticky to me.
How do u get such milk supply? Have u been pumping regularly every 3 hrs? How much BM do u give your older kids? How old r your twins?
Alvina, i duno.. for me it was like..first 3 days i latch my gal on for very long. Even in the hospital the nurses kept pushing her in for feeds. Then from 4th day onwards i pump everytime after latching her on. Then subsequently I just pumped and latch her on once in a while. Initially i pumped every 2 hours (when she fed every 2 hours), then became 3 hours. Then now most of the time i'll pump after her feed, unless i dont have the time to (when the twins are at home and cranky). But i think i drink alot alot of water. Im like..so thirsty always. mabbe tt contributes?
My older kids.. weekdays they take 2 feeds of bm. about 100ml each for each feed then i'll add fm. when they're ill i'll increase the amt of bm slightly. then weekends they'll take 3 feeds of bm. They're turning 21 months in a few days' time.
Lucida, ya...sometimes i have to place a bolster or something like tt beside my gal to hold the pacifier in place. if not once the pacifier flies when she sucks too hard, she'll scream.
My older kids.. weekdays they take 2 feeds of bm. about 100ml each for each feed then i'll add fm. when they're ill i'll increase the amt of bm slightly. then weekends they'll take 3 feeds of bm. They're turning 21 months in a few days' time.
Lucida, ya...sometimes i have to place a bolster or something like tt beside my gal to hold the pacifier in place. if not once the pacifier flies when she sucks too hard, she'll scream.
brambles, i realise if i drink more water, supply will be better.. i nv eat anythign special leh.. in fact sometimes lunch time becos too busy, nv eat well.. feel very bad cos bb takign nutrients from me and i'm not eating well..
I using medela mini electric and avent manual pump..
wah Z-lia very very envy if i hav ur supply, i pump once can liao!
poppy, i totally understand.. haiz.. be mummy very tough.. u goign to BF for how long? i thinking of stopping in Oct, but feel sad not to BF my bb.. abit siao hor.. cos when i let him latch on, its the time we can truely bond..
wah Z-lia very very envy if i hav ur supply, i pump once can liao!
poppy, i totally understand.. haiz.. be mummy very tough.. u goign to BF for how long? i thinking of stopping in Oct, but feel sad not to BF my bb.. abit siao hor.. cos when i let him latch on, its the time we can truely bond..
mich_liu82
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Hi Mummies,
Dunno if you all saw this b4 or not. But its a very sad story. I cried after seeing it. Even now typing oso crying.
Can't help but jus want to share with you gals.
http://www.babyhome.com.tw/album.php?mid=74940
Dunno if you all saw this b4 or not. But its a very sad story. I cried after seeing it. Even now typing oso crying.
Can't help but jus want to share with you gals.
http://www.babyhome.com.tw/album.php?mid=74940
i was so sad...and tears just gush out when saw the pic..even's mum bathed him the last time..changed him the last time...kiss and hug him the last time..last family pic taken...aiyo..now i typed oso eyes watery....and hor,..the pic he was so soundly asleep...but he was actually dead.....*sob sob*...i salute his parents...aiyo...cannot say liao lah..say liao me wanna cry again...
mich_liu82
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Lucida,
Haiz... dunno when this lochia will end hor? 1 2 resume sex oso paisei, scare hubby get turn off by it.
Zlia, lala, dsii,
last nite i see it den cry n cry den dis mornin wake up eyes swollen. must reali treasure wat we have.
Even reali so poor thing but she must be an angel now with God. Lookin over her loved ones and other children.
See those ppl who want to chose baby sex somemore, should ask them see this website.
Haiz... dunno when this lochia will end hor? 1 2 resume sex oso paisei, scare hubby get turn off by it.
Zlia, lala, dsii,
last nite i see it den cry n cry den dis mornin wake up eyes swollen. must reali treasure wat we have.
Even reali so poor thing but she must be an angel now with God. Lookin over her loved ones and other children.
See those ppl who want to chose baby sex somemore, should ask them see this website.
mich_liu82
Member
dsii,
i oso see dat part cry n cry lor... aiyo, now u say i oso 1 2 cry...
i oso see dat part cry n cry lor... aiyo, now u say i oso 1 2 cry...
mich_liu82
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dsii,
u neba log on msn arh? me jus went to see the video... aiyo, waterfall again...
u neba log on msn arh? me jus went to see the video... aiyo, waterfall again...
mich_liu82
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Hi Melody,
Yes... As long as baby healthy... Nothing matters...
Yes... As long as baby healthy... Nothing matters...
mich_liu82
Member
dsii,
I oso waterfall lehz, until my maid tot i quarrel with my hubby... But actually no...
I oso waterfall lehz, until my maid tot i quarrel with my hubby... But actually no...
