kyla, tell yr hb bb needs to slp to grow up and they will be very healthy. bb life is eat, slp and play.
nite plaing is no good for them, it will become a habit end up 3 of u will have a lot of trouble. I would suggest that set a time for yr darling to sleep. is a good habit coz' as he grews older, yr darling will auto slp at the time that is set for him.
Even when bb grows up to say kidergarden, they still must a time set for them if not they will be out of hand.
Not that i want to frighten u gals, i'm saying from a life experience from a mother - my colleague.
Her son was very precious and they spoil him since birth coz' is the only grandson in the family then.
End up the boy can eat anything he wants, slp anytime he likes... and worst play along corridor with other children... due to no displine.. now he is in pri 1, where displine has to come into pic. is hard to control him already.
He open the fridge door, when parents ask him not to so.. he refuse to listen and reburke coz' is hot. and parents let him slp in air con since brith and he is so use to it that if u dont on the aircon in the afternoon for him, he will sit in front of the fridge.
then, talking abt slping.. he refuse to slp when time is set for him. when he is told to do so and being beaten. he took out a fork and says" i want to kill all of u"
See that is from a pri 1 boy.
that is why i always believe spare the rod and spoil the child. displine is very impt, so play when is necessary, spoil him when necessary and do set a time for him to play, and slp.
so in future, we wont have problem educating them that night time is for slping.
What i do is by 8.30pm, i wil make milk for him and put him on his matress (we slp on floors) in fear he falls off and he refuse to slp on his cot anymore.
after the milk feed, he will slp till say abt 10 plus almost to 11pm.. then he will make noise.
I wont switch on the light and just feed him milk. and pat him. no talking no singing.. as time he got use, and he will slp right after each feed.
Do take care, le us kw what prob u face, we will try to find good ways to help you out.
PS: sigh i also having problem telling my in laws not to carry him so much. lucky i dt stay with them.. in not i believe will have conflict. end up coz' they carry isaac too much, i have prob during weekends.