lemontree,
thanks for the encouragement.
Like what most of us here are 1st Mommies n so it is kind of stressed up. Unlike keeping a new pet, bb is more precious perhaps.
So, a slight cry from my bb, I will go figure out what's wrong... and perhaps this becomes a bad habit from her as well.
Staying at PIL's place was a bit diasterous as mil was so busy n fil doesn't noe how to take care of bb except being the siren to me when bb pee or bb cried.. so ended up no difference from staying at home at all. (Mayb got la.. juz no worries on somebody helped to look out when u go toilet or have meals as well as somebody prepares the meals for you??)
So far, even my mil almost surrendered when she gave XT her feed yesterday second time... I am really wondering if MIL can handle if we place her on Friday afternoon over while hb brings me to take a break.
So, today I decided to try up myself staying alone with XT. I dare not say she's good or not so far.. but mayb becoz of all play from pils,sils, that she is quite tired n also at home here is more windy as compared to at PIL's place.
Re: pacifier
I ve the same question too.. when to give XT.. but so far, I've placed XT's hands always with mittens and so she can only use mittens to touch her mouth n not place her finger into the mouth.
But, juz one question, which type of pacifier should we use? Does pacifier require to be sterilized? IF so, I would need to ve spares around?
Hunniepot. Armanda gave u to remove her pacifier when she's asleep and won't wake up??? Wow.. so good, I touched XT a bit juz to pull her shirt to cover her navel n she would wake up already. =p
Re: Sleeping on their own??
I've similar prob on tix.. Again, so far, it depends on XT's mood. IF she's happy, she can play by herself n fall asleep. If she's not, she only allows us to carry her to shoulders and pat her to sleep. N muz b deep sleep (so everytime I touch her hand a bit to ensure she really deep sleep.. else she will wake up).. If not in deep sleep, she will wake up immediately and cry like crazy for putting her down.
B4 my CL left, she did tell me.. unless bb cries badly, else dun make a habit to carry XT up frm bed.. simply pat her on bed would do.. But I guess with so many ppl carrying her during her man yue period n when ppl dropped by, she has loved 2b carried ard EVEN when she's asleep.
Babe, I was like tat loh.. she basically doesn't want us to sit down to make her sleep.. we need to walk ard the house and pat her then she sleep one.. It was really tiring n I was going nuts then.
Kyla, 've u figured out if it was the weather? It muz b really stressed to carry bb almost whole day..
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