hihi,
have been a week since i last logged in.. been so so busy with my girl, anyway.. think she'll want to be feed soon.. so i shall try typing faster..
my girl, jo was born on 6 april, induced on 5 april, admitted to mt a for monitoring, stayed overnite at delivery suit waiting and waiting, morning 6/4 gynae came and burst e water bag, and put me on drip to fasten e contractions.. at tt time i only 2 cm dilated.. so disappointed after one whole day of wait.. then me opt for drip and epidural to be done together cuz then e same doc can do it at e same time, no need pain twice rite..
so me actually didn't experience much of contractions till 12 plus, gynae came to check on me, only 3 cm, and start to feel bit bit pain, so nurse says increase dosage from 6 to 8.. says cuz me so slow might be a long wait, so sad rite, thot i waited more than 24 hours liao..
anyway, at 2 plus, bb heartbeat starts to fluctuate so nurse worried, checked me herself and says i 10cm liao, got to pop now.. so she reduce e drip dosage and all e nurse starts to come in and out and asked me to wait for e gynae to come up.. me wait and wait, suddenly she says bb heartbeat normal again, so gynae says wait for bb to go down canal no need push so hard..
finally around 330 pm, gynae arrive and after 4 push, bb jo is out..
but e bad news is i'm only discharged on monday.. cuz me got bladder leakage problem, e nerve was affected cuz me pushed too hard, and i now do not have sense on whether i'm urgent or not, and urine used to flow out like tap water after i stand out, so was on e catether for 3 days b4 discharge..
alas, dun know when will recover, so stress, must go toilet every hour, just to make sure it don't leak out..
and my princess is a dinosauce, bit so so hard, both me nipple already bled, and me pump out into bottle but she dun want e bottle, anyone got any solutions??
my sis says cuz me let her latch too long, but it's 30 min one breast rite? tt's wat e nurse tell me.. she says 15 mins per breast per feeding, but me worry she dun get e hindmilk(??) e one with all e fatty tissue..
and for those who r applying e nipple cream (Purelan -medela)_ is it really safe for bb to suck? cuz e instructions says safe, nurse says safe but feels weird to let bb suck something so artificial rite?
finally, me going for gynae visit/ padetrician visit tomorrow.. wat do u bring on your first trip out with e bb? and if she suddenly want feeding how?