Hi Ladies,
Thank you all for your concerns. Surgery confirmed to be carried out tomorrow. Feel embarressed to answer most of your queries, but since our thread always attracts many 'invisible viewers', might as well let all know about this uncommon risk before opting for natural birth.
YC commented that she noticed the distance between my A and V is very short and that the skin around these areas are very tender, that explains why my labour was half the time of what FTMs normally takes. The tear I'm having now is internal, it's the area of flesh / cells which separates the A and V, YC commented that this area must have been very thin and when baby is decending, it was torn. I only notice the symptoms 3 mths after birth after AF have stopped and tot that it might heal up naturally, but I was wrong. Symptoms are you will experience gases coming out from the V and sometimess some traces of faeces there, but no pain at all.
So MTB, please check with your gynae on this area. Although it's very uncommon, it happens to 4 out of forgot how many thousands of woman.... No harm asking right... My husband was just surprised why this was not pointed out to us before delivery.... Apparently another client of YC also suffers this condition after birth last year. I hope she's okay now.
Was referred to Dr Francis Seow and he recommended a surgery to stitch and glue the tear. It's a very small tear and will need approximately 4 stitches and it will be done via V with GA and whole surgery will take an hour. We asked about future delivery via V and Dr Seow commented that it should not be a problem, but best to heed gynae's advice....
So that's it lah, my 'adventure'.... Dunno why, have already told my hubby where my insurances are, this and that.... Now old already, know how to be scare of DEATH liao.... Been feeling rather funny..... hmmmm. My first surgery is my life leh.. haha
BTW, Phoebe's teething her 5 tooth. It's making her so super cranky and teary. Didn't know about the new one, but when I'm brushing her teeth last nite, she cried out in pain then upon inspection, her top right side tooth is there.... must be real painful. See her cry, I also feel like crying...
Oceans,
Congratulations.. must post Cherish's coverpage for us okay. I'm so happy, Cherish is our Jan 05 first Magazine Cover Baby....
Are you going to celebrate??? If Phoebe is on the cover, I'll make hundreds of copies for all my friends and relatives... hehe
I'll be posting some pixs later....