hi puff... i'm so sian at work... wish i can pop over to ur place now to play wif YX... hehe...
having a headache cos wake up early to pump... at night also sleep the latest... hiaz...
speaking of which, more complaints abt MIL... at night, we put Jean to bed as late as possible after last feed, like MN and she last till 5~6am then latch... usually (when I was still on ML) Jean next wakes up at 10am and feed at 11am...
yesterday when MIL carried Jean out from the room at 9.30am, hoping that she will wake early and then MIL can do her own things... Jean dun want to wake up and cont to zzz in the living room... wake up oni at 10am...
MIL complain say becos we let her zzz so late at night so Jean can't wake up in the morning... hubby explain say we want to let her zzz late so she will not wake up in the middle of the night like 2~4am and disrupt OUR sleep... MIL say wake up once to feed never mind mah, still can sleep... just feed then let her zzz again lor...
HEY!! I'm the one doing the feeding at night leh, not HER leh...
BOTH hubby and I will have disrupted sleep leh, not HER leh...
some more I have to wake up at 7am to express milk before rushing off to work, not HER leh...
NOT TO MENTION, hubby and I gotta spend WHOLE DAY working, come home still gotta TAKE OVER looking after Jean...
if Jean wakes up at 4am to feed, likely Jean will wake up at 7am again!! then how to put Jean back to sleep when we rushing to prepare for work and MIL still not up yet?!?
I can't believe she was so selfish, just want HER schedule to be "nice" and suggest to mess up other pple's schedule!!! Anyway, I keep quiet, then my hubby say "ok lor!" to her... then I say "what ok lor? of cos not lah! I'm the one waking up to feed leh! If Jean wakes up at 6am, just nice after she finish I can prepare to wake up to pump leow... no need to go back to sleep again..." then she diam diam...
Furthermore, u can never predict...
(1) bb may not fall back to sleep after feeding... so if wake up at 4am and cannot coax back to sleep, who is going to take care? ME/hubby leh!!
(2) after I wake up to feed, I may not fall back to sleep... so who is going to be tired at work? ME leh!!
(3) if Jean wakes up at 2~3am, she's going to wake up at 5~6am AGAIN... so that's feeding TWICE... not once only hor... who's feeding? ME leh!!
She whole day at home with Jean and Jean likes to nap long long in the afternoon, she still can rest what... some more she wake up 8am (later than us) and sleep 10.30pm (earlier than us), still COMPLAIN WAT?!?
I everyday wake up eyes so red oredi... and it's not even 2 weeks after I go back to work... hiaz...