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Hi wonderfuljoy, before any chanting do confirm that you are eating full vegetarian if not all the chanting will be useless.请问念些什么经? 我一般喜欢念心经,与佛号等....可以吗?
没吃素念经的话,效果不理想。
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Hi wonderfuljoy, before any chanting do confirm that you are eating full vegetarian if not all the chanting will be useless.请问念些什么经? 我一般喜欢念心经,与佛号等....可以吗?
是个大厨。谢谢! 其实只想加一个 1.8mx 1mx o.5m 的橱 放客厅.
去医院给爸爸探病是可以。总比去殡仪馆、太平间来得好。刚怀孕, 爸刚进医院, 我看也没办法,得去. 有办法保护自己吗? 谢谢.
Thanks very much for the advices! What about funeral wake of a very close relative we are needed to help out? Esp if wake is held likely at the 殡仪馆 eg. Singapore Casket, what can i do? And may need to go to the Mandai Cremation place too?
Thanks.
你得必须读一读post #63 #331 #907 <-clickThanks very much for the advices! What about funeral wake of a very close relative we are needed to help out? Esp if wake is held likely at the 殡仪馆 eg. Singapore Casket, what can i do? And may need to go to the Mandai Cremation place too?
Thanks.
父母亲往生的话,白事是得办的。孕妇要协助办丧事,是有好几种方法。老师只能教你最简单的方法之一。This is the one of the most simplest methods. 你得自己准备花水,回到家后沐浴。Refer to post. Click -> #64 #86. 若丧事是五天,你就准备五份。明白吗?Thanks v much! I know its not good to attend funeral wakes etc, but what if its a parent's wake? I think my dad may be in a critical stage now, doctor told us to prepare for worst already. We do not have many siblings, just me and my brother. Dun think i may absent myself and not help out coz i m pregnant... =( ..... pls advice any precautious i may take if my participation is unavoidable. Many thanks!
老师不知道究竟为什么会刮起送红鸡蛋的风。呵呵...I read through some posts...mostly return the eggs to tpy temple. I believe the procedure is the same for tanjong pagar temple?
当然可以。拜神明菩萨,还要看心情。呵呵...Blessed with our #2 after a sudden 'feeling' to want to go pray at the temple as we usually go to loyang tua peh gong.
1. Irregardless of religions, 生不出孩子是有原因。Refer to post #2229 <- click. There is a .pdf format file for everybody to download. It is written in Chinese. 老师接触过许许多多childless couples,凭多年的经验写的。After returning, can we take some eggs on other people behalf and pass to them? Got this close friend who are christian and they had been trying for very long.
胎神的存在不是迷信。Would like to know is it true that pregnant women cannot go massage shoulder? Because of got 胎神. I actually sad till now because I did went for wash and blow hair at salon and they massage my shoulder and when my baby girl born her shoulder got one big patch of 胎质. Till now I feel so guilty and feel very sad.
now I think I know my my mil told me not to eat the stuff in a first month cake box from sweetest moments that time when I was preggie. I thought it's because the box was given a few days ago and she thinks the food is not fresh so it's best that I don't eat it. I didn't really ask why she told me not to eat , i just thought , ok maybe u r scared that I fall sick. nvm I eat sth else then..
Hi GemsonThank you. Im believe my in 胎神. Just that I always tot is at home and won't be at outside. I really feel so so sad coz I'm cause her like tat she is girl. When grow up Don know will blame me or not.
My daughter is Zhu sheng niang niang help. I did pray and got my daughter. Very happy but I'm ruin it. Feel so sad.
i dun think is 100% your fault..Hi,
Would like to know is it true that pregnant women cannot go massage shoulder? Because of got 胎神. I actually sad till now because I did went for wash and blow hair at salon and they massage my shoulder and when my baby girl born her shoulder got one big patch of 胎质. Till now I feel so guilty and feel very sad.
老师读了你写的,差点要pengsan了。I didn't know preggie so many things must avoid.. omg... I broke so many taboos le.. not on purpose but I didn't know..... I went to cut nails on my bed..... attend funeral etc (cos that time haven test yet) oh dear.. I can only cross my fingers and hope all is well...
有注生娘娘赏赐的恩典喜得千金,就已经是好事一桩了。Thank you. Im believe my in 胎神. Just that I always tot is at home and won't be at outside. I really feel so so sad coz I'm cause her like tat she is girl. When grow up Don know will blame me or not.
My daughter is Zhu sheng niang niang help. I did pray and got my daughter.
老师读了你写的,差点要pengsan了。
不懂得的地方,可以问一问阿嫲、妈妈、家婆。她们多多少少会记得。
保持心情开朗,过了就不要去想,也尽量不要去重犯。
i also got used... but my case is my family not traditional one.. even my grandma or mother or aunties also wun know this type of thing...haha...ya, during the funeral I didn't know I was preggie.. then I tot only cannot use scissors on bed then when I read carefully alamak, nail clipper also cannot.. now that I know, I don't do it anymore.. just pray that everything will be safe and smooth from now on..
您是threadstarter. 谢谢您开了这个thread哦!功德无量!Many members/readers相信收获不浅。Teacher, thanks for your help in answering all the questions for us here... i am really impressed by your knowledge. there are many taboos that actually our own elderly at home or relatives also may not know. And We are thankful that you are always here to advise us... i am actually the threadstarter of this thread, my initial motive of starting this thread is to learn about how to pray to Zhu Sheng Niang Niang. But I am happy that i learnt more things than expected and get to receive many valuable advice from the experts here
你的问题与post #1928类似。我有个疑问, 母亲喜欢在祖先祭日,七月, 清明等做些美味素食到庙里( 很多牌位的地方)祭祖, 拜拜. 同个地点也时常看到新的牌位在拜头七.
我们拜完后往往 把食物再包好带回家吃. 我上周末一起去拜, 拜了一起回家吃带回的拜过的食物.
隔天就不舒服, 可能天气热吧? 不知在庙拜过的食物可以吃吗?
也请问大白天中午在外用餐还可以吗? 我以为好兄弟只有傍晚出没... 谢谢
农历七月,好兄弟大白天也在。也请问大白天中午在外用餐还可以吗? 我以为好兄弟只有傍晚出没... 谢谢
完全明白。农历七月,怀孕不要到处走嘛。Teacher 早, I HV 2 girls, age 3 and 6 now. Within these 2yr, I had 2 failed pregnancy, atound 8weeks, one with no heartbeat, 2nd one only yolk Sac but no fetal pole. Now is my 3rd pregnancy, seen Gynae saw fetal pole but no heartbeat. Gynae say chance not high, but ask me do ultrasound again nxt Monday , if still no heartbeat HV to schedule DNC.
来不及了。1)From now till Monday, any thing I can do like 念经 or抄经 to hope for miracle?
医生建议尽快做D&C,就去做吧。身体重要。2)Now July month, if really HV to go for DNC How?
可以等明年的清明。或者,水陆法会。3) previous 2 pregnancy also DNC. If July not on time to 超度for them, can wait till nxt yr 清明?
Dear all,
I have gone to both TPY and the temple at Rivervale Crescent. There are 100 eggs each at the temples. Please go collect
Thanx.Thanks and congrats on your new born . I just got the eggs.
Good luck!!!Thanks for informing babyjuan! I just went to TPY to pray and get the red eggs! There are still many many left! Those still keen can go get. Good luck to all and hope your baby dust will bless us with babies soon!
See post #121.Teacher,
Just to ask, tomorrow my husband company praying 7mths at office which this company is my aunt and she ask me bring along my kids also. I don know is it can bring kids go? My kid one 6 one 18mths . Thank you
Congrats, baby Juan!Dear all,
I have gone to both TPY and the temple at Rivervale Crescent. There are 100 eggs each at the temples. Please go collect
问得好。答案是可以。Hi teacher, how about lady that just give birth and visit the hospital to visit terminally ill parent after baby's first month?
老师,if I offer prayers twice everyday with joss stick to the Lord Buddha, could I do the same when I am menstrating? I am also chanting the heart sutra..can I chant during my menses period?问得好。答案是可以。
For Mother
南洋华人的传统上,坐月(30日)完毕之后,才算是比较“干净”。有些坐月14日、21日。要做足30日的,most Singaporeans do not practise.
For Baby
Baby弥月30日是华人比较普遍重视。49日相当完整。要非常安全又非常讲究,baby出世过整100日之后,长辈可以出庆祝 - baby纳运!父母请大家吃斋米粉、蛋糕、ang-gu-kuay. Baby在出世的100日以内,起不少变化。老道长、老法师、甚至少部份经验丰富的老阿嫲老ah-pek会知道。
The Importance of Post Delivery Recouperation (坐月)
话说回来,重要的是生产后就应该要好好地坐月,而不是到闲逛四处跑。Ang-moh产后没有坐月,吹风、洗澡、喝冰水、游泳等等。所以,大部份的老外是整身病, everywhere pun sakit. 这个是老师旅居国外时发现的。