Hi mummies,
I have seen many of u shared abt hb having affair. Felt sad for those in this situation. However, I need some advice for my issue.
My hb was posted to work in another work location (NTU) for a project several years ago. Back then, we are not married but dating. He met this lady (NOTE: PRC). Her name is Wen xxxx. Dunno when they knew each other and how often they met or lunch or watever. Seems that she likes my hb. In sms or im, she will say "miss you" kind of stuff. Once for his bday, she gave him a belt. Think one of the vday, she bought godiva choco. He was honest w me and tell me. Think 2010 he went back to his parent company. He also once met her up for dinner in PS.( dun ask me why i was ok for him to go).....
I gave birth in 2011 and 2015. His bday was just over. Several days after his bday i asked if that lady wished him. He was honest and told me that she wish him and say that she is moving to buangkok soon (note we stay in punggol). I asked if she say odd stuff (e.g. miss u) to him and he say no. I ask how they contact n if he has her number. He say via watsapp and he does not have her number. N say only contact once a year on his bday.
I felt uneasy...i did check his hp several times n see no trace of it. So i tot he deleted it. Been v uneasy and my 6th sense tell me that there is more. So i went to check his hp again yesterday. Chanced upon one thread. Name of the sender is ah boon (Boon also means Wen) right?
I scroll through...after she wish him happy birthday.. she say "miss u (smiley face icon) hope everything is well". She also say can meet up often for dinner or supper! My hb din reply after tt. I also noticed that b4 his bday there r earlier messages...... which i haven check out yet.
I stood calm and ask him again if he got anything to tell me. He say no..i asked if he got her name..he admitted.
He has promised to me long ago to cut contact with her.. but it seems that they are still in contact. Why does he wan to lie to me? Why does he have to give her another name that is so intimate? Several times I told him my 6th sense got something...n ask him to show me his msg but he refused.
He assured that she is of no threat otherwise he wun have 2 kids w me.. i feel v upset..
Mummies please help...
I have seen many of u shared abt hb having affair. Felt sad for those in this situation. However, I need some advice for my issue.
My hb was posted to work in another work location (NTU) for a project several years ago. Back then, we are not married but dating. He met this lady (NOTE: PRC). Her name is Wen xxxx. Dunno when they knew each other and how often they met or lunch or watever. Seems that she likes my hb. In sms or im, she will say "miss you" kind of stuff. Once for his bday, she gave him a belt. Think one of the vday, she bought godiva choco. He was honest w me and tell me. Think 2010 he went back to his parent company. He also once met her up for dinner in PS.( dun ask me why i was ok for him to go).....
I gave birth in 2011 and 2015. His bday was just over. Several days after his bday i asked if that lady wished him. He was honest and told me that she wish him and say that she is moving to buangkok soon (note we stay in punggol). I asked if she say odd stuff (e.g. miss u) to him and he say no. I ask how they contact n if he has her number. He say via watsapp and he does not have her number. N say only contact once a year on his bday.
I felt uneasy...i did check his hp several times n see no trace of it. So i tot he deleted it. Been v uneasy and my 6th sense tell me that there is more. So i went to check his hp again yesterday. Chanced upon one thread. Name of the sender is ah boon (Boon also means Wen) right?
I scroll through...after she wish him happy birthday.. she say "miss u (smiley face icon) hope everything is well". She also say can meet up often for dinner or supper! My hb din reply after tt. I also noticed that b4 his bday there r earlier messages...... which i haven check out yet.
I stood calm and ask him again if he got anything to tell me. He say no..i asked if he got her name..he admitted.
He has promised to me long ago to cut contact with her.. but it seems that they are still in contact. Why does he wan to lie to me? Why does he have to give her another name that is so intimate? Several times I told him my 6th sense got something...n ask him to show me his msg but he refused.
He assured that she is of no threat otherwise he wun have 2 kids w me.. i feel v upset..
Mummies please help...