I'm married for many years, but no child partly due to the reason that my husband isn't interested to have sex. The last time we had sex was more than 3 years ago. He has the thinking that women who take the initiation are sluts, I'm not supposed to make the the first move. Since I'm not granted a chance to have my own kids, and we're no longer young to continue waiting for my husband, I suggested to him that we adopt a child, but he says he doesn't want to have a "unrelated" child.
Last year, I've met a man who makes me feel I'm worth to be respected and loved. Knowing with my marital status, I won't accept him, he's willing to wait for me to divorce. A closed friend who is aware of what I've been going through in my marriage thinks I shouldn't hesitate to leave my selfish husband and his family who have been constantly hurting me.
I don't know if it's right to leave my husband for another man. I've discussed with my parents who aren't aware how my husband has been treating me in these years (they most probably think I'm making up stories to accuse my husband), they do not want me to divorce, and my mum keeps saying it's a disgrace for a woman to divorce and remarry. What will our relatives say behind our back?Honestly speaking I would like to give myself a second chance in life, but I'm also paranoid. What if this man is like my husband, becomes another man after we're married? I can't afford to get hurt again.
As mentioned earlier, I'm no longer young, it maybe impossible for me to conceive if I'm going to start a new family after 3 or 4 yrs. I understand in other countries, a marriage annulment can be granted on the ground of a sexless marriage, but is it possible in Singapore? What else can I do to speed up the process? Thank you.
Last year, I've met a man who makes me feel I'm worth to be respected and loved. Knowing with my marital status, I won't accept him, he's willing to wait for me to divorce. A closed friend who is aware of what I've been going through in my marriage thinks I shouldn't hesitate to leave my selfish husband and his family who have been constantly hurting me.
I don't know if it's right to leave my husband for another man. I've discussed with my parents who aren't aware how my husband has been treating me in these years (they most probably think I'm making up stories to accuse my husband), they do not want me to divorce, and my mum keeps saying it's a disgrace for a woman to divorce and remarry. What will our relatives say behind our back?Honestly speaking I would like to give myself a second chance in life, but I'm also paranoid. What if this man is like my husband, becomes another man after we're married? I can't afford to get hurt again.
As mentioned earlier, I'm no longer young, it maybe impossible for me to conceive if I'm going to start a new family after 3 or 4 yrs. I understand in other countries, a marriage annulment can be granted on the ground of a sexless marriage, but is it possible in Singapore? What else can I do to speed up the process? Thank you.