Hi Sweetie,
Oh,u don't have photos of ur little angel.I took photos of her,my sweet little gal.she's so pretty,with so much hair.& her fingers are so long,she takes after her dad.but she's so skinny,coz i think she hasn't put on any bulk,as she left us in early 3rd trimester.i still tear everyday thinking of her.there isn't a day that has passed that i don't think of her.sometimes,i don't know how i'll cope with pregnancy no.2,and i think i may even be unfair to baby no.2 coz i'm still longing so much for my lost angel.
yes,my histology reports blood clot (suspected near the umbilical vein).so it's on the maternal side.
my gynae is Dr.Shamini Nair fr KKH.wow,u must have spent a lot,going to Mt.E.it's 1 of the the more expensive hospitals.i only want to go to KKH or NUH coz these 2 hospitals has the best neonatal care,in my opinion.i'm going to see A/Prof Mary Rauff fr NUH for a 2nd opinon on how she is going to manage a case like mine & i'll decide if i want to switch gynae.it's not that Dr.Shamini is no good,she's young (39y.o),& compared to prof rauff (who's 60y.o),prof rauff would have seen more cases in her time.i completely trust Dr.Shamini & she & i can discuss issues openly,but i juz want to know if the management of my case will be any different in the hands of a more experienced gynae.I'll be co-managed by Dr.Shamini & head of maternal fetal med,Dr.Kenneth Kwek for the next pregnancy.then again,Dr.Kwek is also relatively young.i'll make a decision once i see Prof rauff in nov.her appts are so packed,she only takes 1 new case per day.she also runs a private clinic at Mt.E,but i'm sure the cost is a lot more.considering next pregnancy may be complicated,i'm a bit concerned of the cost at private hospitals.
how well have u moved on,sweetie? seems like we are quite similar,both 1st born,both gals.sigh...my heart still aches,but comparing to when it happened,i'm a lot better.& planning for no.2.stay strong,gal.everything happens for a reason.
Oh,u don't have photos of ur little angel.I took photos of her,my sweet little gal.she's so pretty,with so much hair.& her fingers are so long,she takes after her dad.but she's so skinny,coz i think she hasn't put on any bulk,as she left us in early 3rd trimester.i still tear everyday thinking of her.there isn't a day that has passed that i don't think of her.sometimes,i don't know how i'll cope with pregnancy no.2,and i think i may even be unfair to baby no.2 coz i'm still longing so much for my lost angel.
yes,my histology reports blood clot (suspected near the umbilical vein).so it's on the maternal side.
my gynae is Dr.Shamini Nair fr KKH.wow,u must have spent a lot,going to Mt.E.it's 1 of the the more expensive hospitals.i only want to go to KKH or NUH coz these 2 hospitals has the best neonatal care,in my opinion.i'm going to see A/Prof Mary Rauff fr NUH for a 2nd opinon on how she is going to manage a case like mine & i'll decide if i want to switch gynae.it's not that Dr.Shamini is no good,she's young (39y.o),& compared to prof rauff (who's 60y.o),prof rauff would have seen more cases in her time.i completely trust Dr.Shamini & she & i can discuss issues openly,but i juz want to know if the management of my case will be any different in the hands of a more experienced gynae.I'll be co-managed by Dr.Shamini & head of maternal fetal med,Dr.Kenneth Kwek for the next pregnancy.then again,Dr.Kwek is also relatively young.i'll make a decision once i see Prof rauff in nov.her appts are so packed,she only takes 1 new case per day.she also runs a private clinic at Mt.E,but i'm sure the cost is a lot more.considering next pregnancy may be complicated,i'm a bit concerned of the cost at private hospitals.
how well have u moved on,sweetie? seems like we are quite similar,both 1st born,both gals.sigh...my heart still aches,but comparing to when it happened,i'm a lot better.& planning for no.2.stay strong,gal.everything happens for a reason.