AngelBee,
not all women (after a m/c) need to go back to gyane.
you have a medicial reason/history...
you mention earlier, you have endometriosis - the tissue that lines the uterus (womb). in women with this problem, tissue that looks and acts like the lining of the uterus grows outside of the uterus in other areas. these areas can be called growths, tumors, implants, lesions, or nodules, etc...
i'm sorry but it's b'cos of this condition, you are at high risk of 'infertility'... but there are test and surgery that you could do.
but there are some studies suggest that you may lower your chances of developing endometriosis if you exercise regularly, avoid alcohol and caffeine.
no one knows for sure what causes this disease, but scientists have a number of theories.
they know that endometriosis runs in families. if your mother or sister has endometriosis, you are six times more likely to get the disease than other women. so, one theory suggests that endometriosis is caused by genes.
another theory is that during a woman's monthly periods, some endometrial tissue backs up into the abdomen through the fallopian tubes. this transplanted tissue then grows outside the uterus. many researchers think a faulty immune system plays a part in endometriosis. in women with the disease, the immune system fails to find and destroy endometrial tissue growing outside of the uterus. plus, a recent study shows that immune system disorders (health problems in which the body attacks itself) are more common in women with endometriosis. more research in this area may help doctors better understand and treat endometriosis.
you mentioned above you did Lap - Laparoscopy ?
yes alot of discomfort, but it's b'cos of your condition. since this doc already knows and is over looking your condition, you ought to stick to him/her.
now it's best for you to look after yourself and try to recover. after m/c there's lost of blood and body is weak. do take care
here's more info to read on your condition.
http://www.4woman.gov/faq/endomet.htm