Hi ladies,
Im new in this grp. Just found out tat i had a missed miscarriage last sat. Had a D&C on Tues and nw resting at hm. V sad tat tis happen during cny.
Even more upset by the words i hear fr my mum when i told her on last Sun. The first thing she say is tat i cannot go visiting during cny cos pple hse hav god instead of consoling me. Then aft my D&C, i called her to infm her tat i had done it n nd her to help me buy some stuff for e mini confinement n again she say tat then she oso cannot go visiting as well.
The thing is y she care oni abt visiting n secondly i din even enter any delivery suite or hospital. My D&C was done in my gynae clinic. Actually i wanted to celebrate cny as my kids r so looking fwd to it n i wanted to forget e pain of e loss. Nw cos of her words, my mood is dampen.
Wat make it worse is my younger sis is delivering tis few days. She has her mil n fil to help n ask my mum to help as well. On my side, i hav no mil to help. Im grateful tat she don giv me trouble let alone helping me. Im v disappointed tat my mum is unfair n insensitive during tis period. I wanted to tel her how i feel but hold myself back.
She came to my plc on wed to cook me dinner n then nt even any call fr her. Im nt sure if im been too sensitive & emo.
Aft e D&C, my mood swing. At x, i m ok. At x, i wil get emo n cry n tink of my bb.
