Pegsfur,Aileen,
my hb wasn't there when she said tat.In fact,nobody was there.I was the only one who stood there n swallowed my tears.
Sweetie,
I can understand how u feel.When my son borned 4yrs ago,my MIL interfere everything...Luckily,we don't stay together.Now,my MIL oso criticize the way i take care my son.My son is quite shy in nature n she keeps blaming me of not giving him exposure.
Hmm...haha..true..SOP consolation words....I know what u meant.Normally when such case happened,the elderly will point the finger to the mother 1st.They believe it is something tat the mother done which cause the baby died.I oso lazy to explain to my MIL.She kept saying it is my nervousness who cause the m/c.In actual fact,it is the chromosome...something tat we cant control.It even happens to the healthy couple.
Blueberi,
Stop blaming urself n keep tink of it...trust me,it will make urself miserable.During my 1st preggie,my colleague oso tapped my shoulder n my hb even fixed a light bulb in front of me(at tha time,i didn't know what r the pantang).But i've smooth preggie n gave birth to my lovely son.
but I believe it is true to keep ur preggie to urself.Mayb just let ur parents know.During my 1st preggie,I even denied when my col kept asking if i was preggie.But I made a mistake for my 2nd preggie,i announced to the world.But then,for my 3rd preggie,only my hb,MIL,my mum knew...still ended up m/c....
whatever passed is past.Don't let the history haunt u...Move forward..since we've learnt our mistakes,just be careful for ur next preggie,ok?
Pinkpixel,
we can't control what will happen in the future.Just do ur best to keep urself healthy.Having a healthy diet,keep a happy mind...for the rest,let it to fate n nature,which something we can't control..
