sad & hurt

[missytortoise]

Hi mummies,

just feeling sad. I am 2 months preg.. at abt 5weeks I was pregnant with no2 I was so happy and I show it to my hubby.. he gt angry and throw mi a attitude.. and after discussing he told mi to abort it... and i say no... he tell me if this is my answer then we shall go for a divorce due to different thinking.. after tt 2 days later he move out.. when asking him where he move to her told me south area... and actually he move to West area... and till today he did not even ask abt my no1 which make mi very sad we have been tgt for 7 yrs and married for 7 yrs and he tell me his feeling is dead in this Marriage and he just wan to love on.. I suspect he have been seeing a gal outside but keep telling me no. since feb he have not been coming home on weekend and keep telling me he go mj and casino.. I want to just move on cos I am suffering here and he is enjoying but still I am unable.. can anyone advise me what should I do?

 

[Sloth Mom]

Hi @missytortoise , he has no right to give you an attitude as he has contributed to this pregnancy too. Since now the baby is in you, the ball is in your court. You can choose if you want to keep it or not. You have to weigh the pros and cons and do keep in mind that if he leaves you, you may end up raising both your kids single-handedly. Talk to your family and friends, their support is very important.

 

[missytortoise]

Hi @missytortoise , he has no right to give you an attitude as he has contributed to this pregnancy too. Since now the baby is in you, the ball is in your court. You can choose if you want to keep it or not. You have to weigh the pros and cons and do keep in mind that if he leaves you, you may end up raising both your kids single-handedly. Talk to your family and friends, their support is very important.

 

[missytortoise]

hi thx.. My parent do not agree on and abortion..so with parent support I am giving birth to it.. just tt why he can just give up like this.. 1 word heart dead and push everything away... and now he is living in happy life and I am suffering here.. I try my best to forget him but it hard... my daughter is in fever up down up down he dun even bother..

 

[Sloth Mom]

His happiness is just temporary... time will tell everything. At least you have your daughter and she has you. One day your hard work and motherly love will pay off. All the best to you and stay strong for your kid!

 

[missytortoise]

I know is quite bad cursing here.. but really i really hope karma hit him asap.. after he get promote and salary high and gt a dip cert he start to look down on mi and my family.. even tell mi come talk to him when I have a 10k saving and earning 3k.. seriously i really hope he get fire at his job.

 

[Sofia Kuo]

@missytortoise Hi, if your hubby treat you like that, that means he doesn't care your feeling and you should just let him go. He doesn't deserve your love. You have to be strong for you baby, take a good care for your body. At least you own your baby.

 

[missytortoise]

@sofia I just feel unfair why am i suffering here and he is enjoying there

 

[Sofia Kuo]

@missytortoise Don't put him in your mind. I can understand now you'll feel unfair, sad, hurt....but his happiness won't last long. He's lack of responsibility. If he did this to you, someday he'll do the same thing to others or maybe others will abandon him....