really depends whether your living style can blend in with them or not. for me im blessed as i have no issue with my inlaws & I've been staying with them for 10 over years. they helped me take care of my dog when we're not at home,cook for us whenever they free,do some minor housework too. we dont have much conflicts too,except some very minor ones which close 1 eye can already. now that my 1st bb is coming out, they're willing to help me do confinement & take care of bb when i go back to work.Anyone stay with in law after marriage life? Are you prefer to have own privacy after experienced it?..
I think so...mine?! Just the name onlyWell, maybe he want to rent out the whole unit (parent's house) in order to have additional income?
Buying a resale unit is also yours right?
Getting 30yrs next year. Was carefully thinking of the changes to beI think so...mine?! Just the name only
How old are you when have your first kid?I think at a stage of time, we will want to have our own house. I bet you both are still young?
Like for us, we stayed with in-law for a period of time.. Later on, we moved out after we got our own house.
When staying with in law, I do tell my hubby that for time being, we are not going to have kids till we have our own house.
So well... Maybe you can talk/discuss with your hubby too
Haha.. Ya.. Name only... Since our hubby is the 'yi jia zi zhu'... What to do..How old are you when have your first kid?
really depends whether your living style can blend in with them or not. for me im blessed as i have no issue with my inlaws & I've been staying with them for 10 over years. they helped me take care of my dog when we're not at home,cook for us whenever they free,do some minor housework too. we dont have much conflicts too,except some very minor ones which close 1 eye can already. now that my 1st bb is coming out, they're willing to help me do confinement & take care of bb when i go back to work.
as for privacy, yes you may have lesser than staying on yr own. think otherwise if they can help u jaga baby for awhile, you can go out dating with your husband too.
yes i understand that, hopefully they wont interfere too muchIssues may arise when baby comes along unless you are those super easy going type. no matter what, it is two generations of different upbringing ways.
Anyone stay with in law after marriage life? Are you prefer to have own privacy after experienced it?..
Even staying with our own parents also will have conflicts.......It always better not to stay together. Even with our own family like parents or siblings also have problem. How can avoid having problems when stay with in law? Tell or nag at spouse only will make relationship worse and also they won't like it. Jus like u also won't him to nag to tell u about ur parents how ur siblings what.
Once awhile maybe can ignore but if too often not a good sign for relationship.
No matter how nice or good in laws are they still not our own parents. Certain things still a gap.
Agreed!It always better not to stay together. Even with our own family like parents or siblings also have problem. How can avoid having problems when stay with in law? Tell or nag at spouse only will make relationship worse and also they won't like it. Jus like u also won't him to nag to tell u about ur parents how ur siblings what.
Once awhile maybe can ignore but if too often not a good sign for relationship.
No matter how nice or good in laws are they still not our own parents. Certain things still a gap.
HahaAgreed!
It always better not to stay together. Even with our own family like parents or siblings also have problem. How can avoid having problems when stay with in law? Tell or nag at spouse only will make relationship worse and also they won't like it. Jus like u also won't him to nag to tell u about ur parents how ur siblings what.
Once awhile maybe can ignore but if too often not a good sign for relationship.
No matter how nice or good in laws are they still not our own parents. Certain things still a gap.