fussywifey
Active Member
I dint go for the down syndrome test.
Somtimes this doctors just want you to spend and i dont like docs who just speculate n speculate. When i was pregnant, they called me up n tried to scare me into taking the tests. We hubby n wife had decided to not spend necrsrily n have the baby. We really justvtawakal n pray for the best frm Allah.. An example of over the phone convo,
Hi mam we would like to help u book a slot for your downsyndrome test (bla bla bla)
Me: this is optional right
Ah yes. But its good to go n check before u proceed w pregnancy so u have peace of mind
Me:my hubby n i are not keen. Thanks
Huh y?its actually good. Theres a slot available-
Me:no no thanks
U sure? Later if baby grow bigger cant take test ald. If anyth dont say we nvr help u ah
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Well tht was the kind of treatment i get from kk when i was undergg pregnncy.
Ofcos all pregnancies are different.
For urs @LizaH maybe u wud check for a second med opinion?n maybe research on reviews of the professor thT urge you to go for this tests?
For me, Some doctors are rlly just saying scripted words wout analysing their patients. But ultimately, think positive n less worrying. Stress would affect baby.
If gg for those tests will provide u w a peace of mind go ahead
Im sorry if i will sound harsh
....But r u prepared to make th decision to lose tht gift if they actually say smth is wrong?
Somtimes this doctors just want you to spend and i dont like docs who just speculate n speculate. When i was pregnant, they called me up n tried to scare me into taking the tests. We hubby n wife had decided to not spend necrsrily n have the baby. We really justvtawakal n pray for the best frm Allah.. An example of over the phone convo,
Hi mam we would like to help u book a slot for your downsyndrome test (bla bla bla)
Me: this is optional right
Ah yes. But its good to go n check before u proceed w pregnancy so u have peace of mind
Me:my hubby n i are not keen. Thanks
Huh y?its actually good. Theres a slot available-
Me:no no thanks
U sure? Later if baby grow bigger cant take test ald. If anyth dont say we nvr help u ah
-.-
Well tht was the kind of treatment i get from kk when i was undergg pregnncy.
Ofcos all pregnancies are different.
For urs @LizaH maybe u wud check for a second med opinion?n maybe research on reviews of the professor thT urge you to go for this tests?
For me, Some doctors are rlly just saying scripted words wout analysing their patients. But ultimately, think positive n less worrying. Stress would affect baby.
If gg for those tests will provide u w a peace of mind go ahead
Im sorry if i will sound harsh
....But r u prepared to make th decision to lose tht gift if they actually say smth is wrong?