reyals,
oh dear! hope u recover soon.
nuah,
agree with reyals, gotta ask yourself if u want C to be close to u or your hb. personally i feel that sometimes u have to just "dump" C with your hb whether she likes it or not else u're gonna just tire yourself out in the end. u have to let C know that she can't get things her way all the time, she will have to learn that mummy is tired and can't always be there for her. give it a try, let your hb take over even if C objects, i think over a certain period she may get the message. better to rough it out during that period than in the long run. just rembr that u need to keep your sanity too.
oh dear! hope u recover soon.
nuah,
agree with reyals, gotta ask yourself if u want C to be close to u or your hb. personally i feel that sometimes u have to just "dump" C with your hb whether she likes it or not else u're gonna just tire yourself out in the end. u have to let C know that she can't get things her way all the time, she will have to learn that mummy is tired and can't always be there for her. give it a try, let your hb take over even if C objects, i think over a certain period she may get the message. better to rough it out during that period than in the long run. just rembr that u need to keep your sanity too.