OIC, she will not nag, but she will say "NO"! keke.. after all, u r the one paying her, I guess if u insist, she will just hv to go ahead with it ba? For us, we compromised and I bath weekly. She also restrict my coffee intake! But she cooks really well, even though she is a vegeterian. My maid then was terrible, she cannot stand it and help me to do simple house chores, even though she is not required too. When she was ard, my house is cleaner! haha.. so not long after she left I finally fired my then maid!
I was really amazed by her, she can feed/bath my twins (they were hard to handle with 2 hrly feed, short naps and freq bowels), cook (3 kinds of food, vegeterian for herself, confinement for me, and normal food for hubby), washing of clothes (she insist on hand wash of baby clothes and even insist on clothe diapers during the days, even though we told her it will be too troublesome as we hv twins) and general cleaning of kitchen and toilets (cos my maid is just too slow and dirty!). Sometimes I even had to ask her to go sleep! haha..