Hmm.. maybe u shld stop telling her abt meimei? She may hv been too stress over it? Just keep telling her u love her? I dun hv such problems with G though. I remembered that I dun really talk abt the babies except when she ask abt my big tummy. But once a while I will ask for her permission if I can put DiDi's bed here, buy this shirt for DiDi. She get all excited abt seeing them.
But some mummies propose getting a big present for the her, give it to her after the delivery, and told her it is fr meimei. And for me, actually after my boys were delivered, I seldom carry them, in fact i spent more time with G and when the boys cry, I ask for G's permission before I go carry/feed/tend to them.