bliss - thanks for informing the sis here on my condition... i can get up and off the bed myself and can walk withput using the frame now
lesson learned : bb size matters, i think ideal weight shd be 3-3.2kg for my size. It was only after epi subsized then i realised i cant walk. after much discussion with gynae, she told me it was "symphysis pubis dysfunction" which will take 4wks or a few months to fully recover
all
a quick update since mil and hb are bathing bb yan4 jun2 :
28 Oct : zero dilation. gynae suggested induction on sat afraid that bb jun's head would grow bigger and mummy would hv diff pushing. i agreed. cant wait liao, tummy really heavy
30 Oct
1.30pm : 1 cm dilation. gynae put a tablet into V and told me to tahan till 11pm if i can, cos there would be additional day charge if i admit before 11pm
9pm : cannot tahan the frequent (<5min) and acute constraction, asked hb to send me to hosp immediately.
9.30pm : at labour ward. i was the only one screaming. immediately ask for epi cos pain was like every min. nurses told me to do the deep breathing as they say still early, only 1cm dilation... believe me, deep breathing not effective by then!! was told to clear my bowel and take a shower though i hardly could stand up myself!!
10pm : finally injected epi...
10.30pm : phew! much better. Gynae came and said it was 4-5cm dilation. was sent to another room where me and my hb can rest and wait for stage 2.
8am : the worst wait! finally, 10cm dilated but both legs already numb and i couldnt feel any contractions. epi dosage was reduced. (maybe they shd hv reduced it much earlier when i complained abt the numbness)
9.30am : nurses said cannot wait, must start pushing liao... i tried pushing for one hour, cannot
10.30am : gynae suggested to cut off epi and wait for 30mins b4 i try again
11.05am : this time i can feel the contraction, but still not successful. gynae advised forceps and i agreed...
11.20am : with 3 hard pushes, forceps and 2 nurses pressing on my tummy...
11.28am : i heard bb cries... bb jun is born at 3.725kg, head cir : 34cm and length 51cm. tt feeling was amazing and relieved too!
will find time to post some pic in fb shortly... bb was mild jaundice, yellow sticky eye discharge (almost recovered), diaper rash at annus and backside, look longer and skinny as compared to born (Is this normal?). otherwise, he is well.
cheers!