Lina,
see, I told you rite? That time my sis's daughter also kept saying the baby inside mummy's tummy is mei mei, coz she wanted a sister to play w her, but is actually a didi. So it is always normal for the elder child to wish for the same gender sibling. Heehee...
I read that the sibling rivalry between siblings of different genders is lesser than of same genders too, something to feel happier for you. Haha!
Itajbi,
Congrats on having a gal! So happy for you! I will update this for you.
I am ok so far, though there is lots of ups n downs emotionally ever since after delivery. Still trying my best to adjust to lots of changes in life, I just pray that I can be stronger physically(getting lots of backaches n sleepless nites) as well as mentally.
I am having an indo maid to help me at home, but the job of baby care is still mostly on me as I dont really trust maid n my maid does not know much about baby care(kind of deceived by her when she claimed that she has experiences in that during interview). Anyway, I am glad that baby is growing well, but I must say that he is not an easy baby to take care, bo bian, kekeke! I am already very thankful to have him, hope he will be guai guai boy.
Sophia,
thanks, will take note of your update later!