I'm working too. I have people asking me to quit too and one of them is my sister. I have a very political boss who acts understanding. Since the day I rejected this monthly travel task giving the reason that I'm family planning, and don wish to be away every month, he been pressurizing me to train ppl to do what I do. I had to do OT until the night before my ER. My hubby ain't very happy about it either.
While I agree that stress is not good for ttc-ing, we don't need to be "doing nothing, just relax"
#1 of cos working gives $$$ and $$$ is not only necessary for ivf but also impt to have when u have a baby.
#2 many of those ppl who ask us to quit do not understand that ttc is not just about relaxing. There are so many factors that could affect the chances of success
#3 even if we quit and do nothing at home, it's still stressful. Stress about whether next cycle will be successful, stress about whether can still find job after giving birth, stress about whether current fund reserves is sufficient to cope with any unexpected problems etc etc...
So don bother what others advise u to do. Cos you know best what is good for yourself. Trust yourself and move in the direction you want.