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Old Aunty, I worry too but already go so far cannot think too much.

Connie, my mum cook sesame oil with ginger pork n fish. I boil red dates with ginger n brown sugar too ;)
 


Hi sisters,can i check which place is egg retrieval done at kkh?is it at e day surgery ward?

For sedation at kkh, is it ask u to breathe to a gas can le? Or they also inject somethg to yr vein?
 
Hi sisters,can i check which place is egg retrieval done at kkh?is it at e day surgery ward?

For sedation at kkh, is it ask u to breathe to a gas can le? Or they also inject somethg to yr vein?
at their treatment room in Kkivf centre. i was asked to breathe via mask.
 
Im not emotionally & physically ready to go work tmrw. HL ends today & AF is still not on full flow, only dark brown discharge & cramping like MAD :(
btw just asking for those who have experienced a failed cycle, did kkh explain on the spot why the failure? Coz when I did my beta on Saturday, the nurse called me and pass me the results & merely said sorry it was negative, & gave me a follow up appt. it was over & done in less than 2 minutes. I find them not showing empathy at all. Is this normal practice actually?
 
Im not emotionally & physically ready to go work tmrw. HL ends today & AF is still not on full flow, only dark brown discharge & cramping like MAD :(
btw just asking for those who have experienced a failed cycle, did kkh explain on the spot why the failure? Coz when I did my beta on Saturday, the nurse called me and pass me the results & merely said sorry it was negative, & gave me a follow up appt. it was over & done in less than 2 minutes. I find them not showing empathy at all. Is this normal practice actually?
Hi ,i did at private for my 1st ivf. The nursd also announced to me like wat u said. My no review at all. Nurse just say doc says call back on yr day 2 when u are ready to try. Think they are used to this..

Littlebambam,jiayou! Sometimes go back to work will help to numb some sadness..
 
Im not emotionally & physically ready to go work tmrw. HL ends today & AF is still not on full flow, only dark brown discharge & cramping like MAD :(
btw just asking for those who have experienced a failed cycle, did kkh explain on the spot why the failure? Coz when I did my beta on Saturday, the nurse called me and pass me the results & merely said sorry it was negative, & gave me a follow up appt. it was over & done in less than 2 minutes. I find them not showing empathy at all. Is this normal practice actually?
for my case, kk dr see me and husband n told us on the result also for 5 mins but nvr set next appt yet (2 weeks passed le). so disappointed with their 'svc'. Connie_hopeful is right. good to back to work to recover from sadness but beware that colleagues will ask lot of questions. ...after cried for 3 full days..i also cut short my HL by 1 wk plus.
 
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base on what condition that kk prescribe this med and how much is your dosage? dun understand why kk target treatment on me considering my age...hiaz
Yes , some doctors here do prescribe DHEA .I have taken DHEA before , prescribed by Dr christopher Chen . However my present Doctor told me it does not help in improving egg quality , though some drs believe that it help patients with low egg reserves. my dr also mentioned that there is no scientific proof that DHEA is effective
 
About the sedation for ER, they put me on the drip, put a mask on me, then injected liquid paracetamol (panadol) into me through the drip. I always assumed the injection was the sedation.
 
Thanks for e feedback ladies. I was on ga for e hysteroscopy. There is a difference of kkh ga and tt of private. Kkh ga gas was so smelly! Private ga no smell..

So i curious how sedation is like n which room it was done. Hee
 
Inject for drip at vein!? Omg... I very scared of putting drip on my hand vein although i havent had drip before. Seeing ppl hand got drip my whole body like jelly already...
 
Im not emotionally & physically ready to go work tmrw. HL ends today & AF is still not on full flow, only dark brown discharge & cramping like MAD :(
btw just asking for those who have experienced a failed cycle, did kkh explain on the spot why the failure? Coz when I did my beta on Saturday, the nurse called me and pass me the results & merely said sorry it was negative, & gave me a follow up appt. it was over & done in less than 2 minutes. I find them not showing empathy at all. Is this normal practice actually?[/
Im not emotionally & physically ready to go work tmrw. HL ends today & AF is still not on full flow, only dark brown discharge & cramping like MAD :(
btw just asking for those who have experienced a failed cycle, did kkh explain on the spot why the failure? Coz when I did my beta on Saturday, the nurse called me and pass me the results & merely said sorry it was negative, & gave me a follow up appt. it was over & done in less than 2 minutes. I find them not showing empathy at all. Is this normal practice actually?
ya , they will not explain to u why your ivf failed. i was told that the doctor will go through my BT result with a panel of dunno who, and dr will speak to me on the day i go back for review and recommend the best next step for me from then onwards
 
Inject for drip at vein!? Omg... I very scared of putting drip on my hand vein although i havent had drip before. Seeing ppl hand got drip my whole body like jelly already...
@pigletlyn,
No scared. They are not painful. Always believe that if others can go through it,u can too. Jiayou!
@ preciousbeanie,
d&c prior to ivf is for removal of polyps that some of us is diagnosed with unfortunately after scanning/sis scan. D&c is not a must for ivf. Its best not to go through it and its best to smoothly can proceed to ivf. If doc didnt tell u anythg n give u greenlight to ivf,dun worry abt this dnc
 
Inject for drip at vein!? Omg... I very scared of putting drip on my hand vein although i havent had drip before. Seeing ppl hand got drip my whole body like jelly already...
Inject for drip at vein!? Omg... I very scared of putting drip on my hand vein although i havent had drip before. Seeing ppl hand got drip my whole body like jelly already...
pigleton, it feels similar to drawing blood for tests , not that painful.so dun worri k?
 
Thanks for e feedback ladies. I was on ga for e hysteroscopy. There is a difference of kkh ga and tt of private. Kkh ga gas was so smelly! Private ga no smell..

So i curious how sedation is like n which room it was done. Hee

KKIVF (where you do your scans while growing your follicles) has surgery theatres hidden behind closed doors, right in the same area. Very smart architecture to make it so accessible to patients at KKIVF yet private and away from the crowd. I didn't smell anything from the mask.
 
KKIVF (where you do your scans while growing your follicles) has surgery theatres hidden behind closed doors, right in the same area. Very smart architecture to make it so accessible to patients at KKIVF yet private and away from the crowd. I didn't smell anything from the mask.
Hi,e smelly gas is from general anesthesia from my hysteroscopy at kkh,not from ivf. Maybi thats y kkivf use sedation for their ivf?
 
Inject for drip at vein!? Omg... I very scared of putting drip on my hand vein although i havent had drip before. Seeing ppl hand got drip my whole body like jelly already...

I have tiny veins and on my first fresh cycle, the nurse who put the drip on me was incompetent. She put the needle in my hand and poked around for a good one minute hoping to find the vein. I was in so much sharp pain I clasped my mouth and cried. Finally she called for another nurse, who did it in about 5 - 10 seconds. My vein was still in pain all the way until I got knocked out from sedation. The whole thing was definitely more painful than a blood test for me. I'm not saying this to scare you, pigletlyn, just to share my personal experience. My second fresh was much better and had little pain due to a different nurse doing the drip. I think it really depends on whether you have tiny veins like me and the competency of the nurse. If she cannot find your vein and it's painful, don't suffer in silence, immediately demand another nurse to do it.

But i see the drip needle usually thicker than the normal needle. Is it true?

True, but I still feel it's the size of your veins and the competency of the nurse that determine how you feel. Just don't look at it when it's being done; close your eyes, take deep breaths and relax. It'll all be worth it if/when you BFP and you'll forget about it in no time!
 
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Hello ladies,

I am just logging in to share my experience with IVF. I have a boy who just turned 14 months from IVF under dr sf loh and gotten a lot of support in this forum.

I had the short protocol and during egg retriever gotten 23 eggs but when I need to do ET, only 2 embryos and 1 survived. So don't worry if you don't have a lot, 1 is enough :) However, I did a lot of prep work before this, I had acupuncture, ate healthy and make sure I am relaxed. During my ER n ET I was very zen and even after I just relax n let nature takes it's course.

All ladies please jiayou and one thing I didn't do is to look for signs that I m pregnant and when time to test for bfp then I wip out a stick :) rest of the time just relax ok :)

All the best!!! if any questions can ask me I will try my best to help :)

Ttc77 : don't worry I have only 2 follicles too during my day 2 scan. I didn't eat anything different to increase but I was doing acupuncture at the same time. I think that might have helped :)
Thanks for sharing. Your reply is encouraging.
 
Im not emotionally & physically ready to go work tmrw. HL ends today & AF is still not on full flow, only dark brown discharge & cramping like MAD :(
btw just asking for those who have experienced a failed cycle, did kkh explain on the spot why the failure? Coz when I did my beta on Saturday, the nurse called me and pass me the results & merely said sorry it was negative, & gave me a follow up appt. it was over & done in less than 2 minutes. I find them not showing empathy at all. Is this normal practice actually?
At private hospital, no empathy too. Nurse only called to inform results negative and request patient to arrange for failed discussion with doctor. Only saving grace is failed discussion is foc.
 
Hello ladies,

I am just logging in to share my experience with IVF. I have a boy who just turned 14 months from IVF under dr sf loh and gotten a lot of support in this forum.

I had the short protocol and during egg retriever gotten 23 eggs but when I need to do ET, only 2 embryos and 1 survived. So don't worry if you don't have a lot, 1 is enough :) However, I did a lot of prep work before this, I had acupuncture, ate healthy and make sure I am relaxed. During my ER n ET I was very zen and even after I just relax n let nature takes it's course.

All ladies please jiayou and one thing I didn't do is to look for signs that I m pregnant and when time to test for bfp then I wip out a stick :) rest of the time just relax ok :)

All the best!!! if any questions can ask me I will try my best to help :)

Ttc77 : don't worry I have only 2 follicles too during my day 2 scan. I didn't eat anything different to increase but I was doing acupuncture at the same time. I think that might have helped :)
Thank u babe: )
 
At private hospital, no empathy too. Nurse only called to inform results negative and request patient to arrange for failed discussion with doctor. Only saving grace is failed discussion is foc.
Hi bb fanatic, Its free?mine need to pay to see doc. Which centre are u at for foc failed discussion?
Although sian with a failed 1st frrsh cycle,lets continue to self moltivate n jiayou :)
 
Thanks for sharing. Your reply is encouraging.

My pleasure!! If you need to ask anything if I can help I will gladly help :) I followed another lady who spoke to me offline from this forum and she has successful BFP recently too :) I feel so happy to be with her when she needs me. so if I can help I will be glad to :)
 
I'm with kkh dr jerry chan my 1st ivf didn't take any vitamins other than folic acid. Now just started with conceive well and melatonin which I read online saying it helps producing quality eggs dunno hw true. Now also seeing TCM

I am also with dr jerry chan. Similarly, he also didnt ask me to take vitamins. But he did mention he had patients who went tcm, but he put disclaimer that he dont know how effective that is.
 
Im not emotionally & physically ready to go work tmrw. HL ends today & AF is still not on full flow, only dark brown discharge & cramping like MAD :(
btw just asking for those who have experienced a failed cycle, did kkh explain on the spot why the failure? Coz when I did my beta on Saturday, the nurse called me and pass me the results & merely said sorry it was negative, & gave me a follow up appt. it was over & done in less than 2 minutes. I find them not showing empathy at all. Is this normal practice actually?

When my cycle failed, i also cried all day at home. It didnt help that i have so heavy AF flow.

The nurse who called me also just tell me it is negative. I didnt start crying until she ended the call. I even asked her abt what to do with the medicine.

Dont think doc or nurse will be able to tell why fail. When i went for my review, the doc also simply say, seems it didnt work for u. And nothing much he said, just prescribe medicine and ask me to schedule with ivf centre for next cycle.

I also didnt go back to work immediately. Physically was in bad shape and i might as well utilise my HL fully and do things normally, as a non-preggy. I can walk faster, and do hair, and go shopping....

When i went back to work, many people came to ask me abt why i was away for so long. I chose to share with my team, as they asked me during a catch up meeting. First time i felt they are so "close". When there are people who really cares, it doesnt feel so bad, i think.

As you said, you wont give up. So let's put this behind and look forward to the next round.
 
I am also with dr jerry chan. Similarly, he also didnt ask me to take vitamins. But he did mention he had patients who went tcm, but he put disclaimer that he dont know how effective that is.

That I'm not sure too whether it works but I heard Good reviews from people from the tcm clinic . But surely it makes me feel alilttle more positive.
 
Missyserene, thanks for the update. I was told by my private gynae if i want HL he can give 2-3days after ER. I guess private and govt hospital different. I am waiting for AF to come and start stim jabs. Hope u have many good eggs and rest well now.
 
Hello ladies,

I am just logging in to share my experience with IVF. I have a boy who just turned 14 months from IVF under dr sf loh and gotten a lot of support in this forum.

I had the short protocol and during egg retriever gotten 23 eggs but when I need to do ET, only 2 embryos and 1 survived. So don't worry if you don't have a lot, 1 is enough :) However, I did a lot of prep work before this, I had acupuncture, ate healthy and make sure I am relaxed. During my ER n ET I was very zen and even after I just relax n let nature takes it's course.

All ladies please jiayou and one thing I didn't do is to look for signs that I m pregnant and when time to test for bfp then I wip out a stick :) rest of the time just relax ok :)

All the best!!! if any questions can ask me I will try my best to help :)

Ttc77 : don't worry I have only 2 follicles too during my day 2 scan. I didn't eat anything different to increase but I was doing acupuncture at the same time. I think that might have helped :)
Hi, sori to check, did dr loh explained why only 1 survived embryo out of your 23 eggs? recently i did a 2nd opinion with him (i intended to shift to his clinic from Kk), and he commented that it is not possible that out of my 17 eggs, none produce a good embryo. He insist me to take dhea+Q10 and try one more time at his clinic instead of go for donor eggs. But look like these med dun work on you as well? hiaz...shld i just go straight for donor eggs instead of trial and error again?
 
Hi, sori to check, did dr loh explained why only 1 survived embryo out of your 23 eggs? recently i did a 2nd opinion with him (i intended to shift to his clinic from Kk), and he commented that it is not possible that out of my 17 eggs, none produce a good embryo. He insist me to take dhea+Q10 and try one more time at his clinic instead of go for donor eggs. But look like these med dun work on you as well? hiaz...shld i just go straight for donor eggs instead of trial and error again?
I also faced with same problem for my failed ivf. My AMH is on the high side. Wonder if I can consume DHEA?
 
i googled website and it stated that one shld not take too much folic acid per day. However i have been taking 5mg and the blackmores Per-conception also contains 500pg. Is that ok and not consider overdose right? after taking all supplyments (dhea+q10+conceive well+folic acid+eye nutrition+glucosamine), somehow i feel slight heavy on my head and chest.
 
i googled website and it stated that one shld not take too much folic acid per day. However i have been taking 5mg and the blackmores Per-conception also contains 500pg. Is that ok and not consider overdose right? after taking all supplyments (dhea+q10+conceive well+folic acid+eye nutrition+glucosamine), somehow i feel slight heavy on my head and chest.
Hi, i dun think u neef extra folic acid le as conceive well already contains folic acid
 
Connie, have you got your result? My doctor just called me and said that the polyp is actually the tissue from my last pregnancy that I MC.
 
Hi,

have been long time since I login.. going for my FET soon. Any advise wat to take and avoid?? cannot remember all the tips ;p
 
Connie, have you got your result? My doctor just called me and said that the polyp is actually the tissue from my last pregnancy that I MC.
Janices, doc tan hh call u personally uh? So nice. I also did hysteroscopy under him, didnt receive any call yet. Dunno if he will call me..do u know him well? I dunno him well so maybi he will not call me..
How r u feeling now? Today my left side is a bit pain, dunno if it is due to e removal pain

So when can u start yr fet?
 
Hi, does anyone know here if royal jelly or bee propolis is good to take for endometrosis?
I'm planning to prep my body for my 3rd fresh.
 
Janices, doc tan hh call u personally uh? So nice. I also did hysteroscopy under him, didnt receive any call yet. Dunno if he will call me..do u know him well? I dunno him well so maybi he will not call me..
How r u feeling now? Today my left side is a bit pain, dunno if it is due to e removal pain

So when can u start yr fet?
I'm under dr paul Tseng, not under kkh :). Yesterday my right side slightly pain too, my daughter sat on my tummy n hurt my tummy few times.

I'll start my fet next cycle :)
 
And for ladies who did D&C, how can we eat to 'bu' our body besides doing a mini confinement? My tcm only ask me to go back to him after my first AF. So now thinking of self 'bu' .
 
I'm under dr paul Tseng, not under kkh :). Yesterday my right side slightly pain too, my daughter sat on my tummy n hurt my tummy few times.

I'll start my fet next cycle :)
oic. I dun think kkh dr will be so nice to call n update la. He is so bz. I have to wait for 7 nov to know e results. Wonder if our menses will haywire after polyp removal?did doc tell u when menses will be back to normal? I got a lot of quest but in kkh i think its hard to reach e doc to ask questions compared to private
 


Hi, does anyone know here if royal jelly or bee propolis is good to take for endometrosis?
I'm planning to prep my body for my 3rd fresh.
think royal jelly is not suitable for everyone... u seeing tcm? can check w tcm. If I remember correctly, ppl w fybriod cannot take
 

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