Oceandeep,
When I failed my 1st fresh cycle in Jan, I was devastated. However, I also told myself that it should not be a surprise since I did little preparation before going for it. When I decided to go for a 2nd fresh, l tell myself that I must do whatever humanly possible and within my means to improved my chances.
That is when I decided to try TCM, acupuncture (even though l fear needles), Endo Scratch and intralipid infusion. None of these treatment will guarantee success but if they will help to increase my chances or lessen the odds, I will give it a go.
I tell myself that I have to give the best shot and try my best. If I succeed, the pain, time , effort and $ spent will be worthwhile. If I don't, although I will still feel sad but at least I can tell myself that I have tried all ways possible. There will be no guilt on my part.
If you are keento try out TCM, l recommend that you go to TSB. Her herbs really help. Both DH and l could feel the difference after taking the herbs. Actually, I think her herbs helped me to lessen the bleed since l started drinking on last Wed.
For acupuncture, I go to Dr Zuo in AMK. Like TSB, She has a long queue of patients too. l find that my abdomen is warmer after acupuncture.