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Blur, very angry. Jus slam the phone on mu hubby...let me wait until so long...almost everyday he workinh late and no time for me. I felt so neglect.
he ask me to go down and meet him to go eat, but i refuse...told him u wan u come up. i know his working..but jus cant control...
amateur_ivfian
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Hi gals,
was home late last nite, so didn't log in to read the postings.
Renee,
So can go whack shashimi ah? so happy!
Yvonne,
You damn funny...your hb so poor thing..hahah..actually my hb also has a habit of trimming his hair every fortnightly. Everytime i'll tell him can't see where long...he will just go ahead & look for the barber. But he goes to those malay barber type, so 1 haircut only S$10. He always say i go to my stylist will spend 100+ 200+ everytime, he can cut whole year liao! hahaha
Blur,
how's your 1st day at work?
was home late last nite, so didn't log in to read the postings.
Renee,
So can go whack shashimi ah? so happy!
Yvonne,
You damn funny...your hb so poor thing..hahah..actually my hb also has a habit of trimming his hair every fortnightly. Everytime i'll tell him can't see where long...he will just go ahead & look for the barber. But he goes to those malay barber type, so 1 haircut only S$10. He always say i go to my stylist will spend 100+ 200+ everytime, he can cut whole year liao! hahaha
Blur,
how's your 1st day at work?
amateur_ivfian
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Nanz,
Think it's your hormones raging is it? Moreover, a hungry man is an angry man...so that's probably why last nite you so upset. You feeling better today? I'm sure your hb got sayang you right?
take care
Think it's your hormones raging is it? Moreover, a hungry man is an angry man...so that's probably why last nite you so upset. You feeling better today? I'm sure your hb got sayang you right?
clearsky
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Morning!
I start this month so can I still continue with folic acid ?Was told not to take clomid but not too sure of folic acid. Please advise
Nanz,
Hope you are okie. Look at the good side,I think you have a husband who is very responsible and commited in his work, better than man who neglect job and cannot give his spouse security.
I start this month so can I still continue with folic acid ?Was told not to take clomid but not too sure of folic acid. Please advise
Nanz,
Hope you are okie. Look at the good side,I think you have a husband who is very responsible and commited in his work, better than man who neglect job and cannot give his spouse security.
Ad, blur,
No man, my hb still said no no for me to eat sashimi. He said this BB is too expensive to take any risk. Last night he so chek ark. he bought a you coconut and he was chopping the shell in the kitchen. So i went to see(of cos at the same time I very gian to drink lah) then I ask him for a sip. he said ok. Then he put the straw in and I start to drink. But I bearly had a touch of the coconut water, he pinch the straw to stop the water flowing to my mouth. I felt so so "khe lian" sigh...
Wow, but the taste if that little bit of coconut water was so sweet and fragrance. hoo.....
No man, my hb still said no no for me to eat sashimi. He said this BB is too expensive to take any risk. Last night he so chek ark. he bought a you coconut and he was chopping the shell in the kitchen. So i went to see(of cos at the same time I very gian to drink lah) then I ask him for a sip. he said ok. Then he put the straw in and I start to drink. But I bearly had a touch of the coconut water, he pinch the straw to stop the water flowing to my mouth. I felt so so "khe lian" sigh...
Wow, but the taste if that little bit of coconut water was so sweet and fragrance. hoo.....
blur,
today my MS is worse.... had this uak auk uak! like vommiting kind of symptom laio. My stomach was very very uncomfi, then tought of going to the kitchen to toast a bread. while waiting for the toast to be ready. I uak auk at the sink already. very kang koh indeed. I hate this.
today my MS is worse.... had this uak auk uak! like vommiting kind of symptom laio. My stomach was very very uncomfi, then tought of going to the kitchen to toast a bread. while waiting for the toast to be ready. I uak auk at the sink already. very kang koh indeed. I hate this.
amateur_ivfian
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Renee,
true la...scared is scared the raw thing not fresh, eat liao tummy ache...dun risk lor
true la...scared is scared the raw thing not fresh, eat liao tummy ache...dun risk lor
Blurblur, Renee, Ad, StacyP,
Thanks for all the advices. I'm feeling OK today..but only swollen eyes cos last nite cry cry mah. Yah, my hubby reach home 1030pm then saw me crying...think he oso stress cos i jus dunno why just keep on crying...after he pacified me then we go eat late dinner lor (Poor him oso have not taken his dinner cos he wan to eat with me and dun expect the meeting to end so later). During our bed nite talks, I did apologised to him for making him feel so stress oso, but did tell him i feel neglected. Last time me not like tat wan. I will find my own program when he need to work late, but nowsaday after preggie like becoming very 'childish' jus need attention lor...think he oso heartpain last nite..he did explain to me abt his work so tat i will understand wat going on. Anyway, he is trying his best to schedule his friday work to be accomplished by thursday so that he can have time for me tis wkend. (he himself oso know tis couple of weeks he have alot of late nite work, so think he feel guilty too.)
Well...guess u girls may be rite..."hormones raging"...oh yah, then later before we lights off my crazy hubby scold my BB and say: "why u make mummy cry?. See pushing the blame to BB'.
Thanks for all the advices. I'm feeling OK today..but only swollen eyes cos last nite cry cry mah. Yah, my hubby reach home 1030pm then saw me crying...think he oso stress cos i jus dunno why just keep on crying...after he pacified me then we go eat late dinner lor (Poor him oso have not taken his dinner cos he wan to eat with me and dun expect the meeting to end so later). During our bed nite talks, I did apologised to him for making him feel so stress oso, but did tell him i feel neglected. Last time me not like tat wan. I will find my own program when he need to work late, but nowsaday after preggie like becoming very 'childish' jus need attention lor...think he oso heartpain last nite..he did explain to me abt his work so tat i will understand wat going on. Anyway, he is trying his best to schedule his friday work to be accomplished by thursday so that he can have time for me tis wkend. (he himself oso know tis couple of weeks he have alot of late nite work, so think he feel guilty too.)
Well...guess u girls may be rite..."hormones raging"...oh yah, then later before we lights off my crazy hubby scold my BB and say: "why u make mummy cry?. See pushing the blame to BB'.
Renee, u can ask dR for MS pills if really by next visit still so jialak. Tat time me oso same but only for few days and they give me the yellow pill to stop the nausea. the dr told me it is a very safe pill. Even my recent food poison, the GP oso give me the same pill to stop the vomit. Is yellow in colour and start with 'D..." cant rmbr the spelling.
Renee,
Can i ask you a favour pls. You told me that yr hb SA result is now back to normal, I would like to know what is the % of his "normal forms" and "Rapid" I need a comparison from someone cos Doc will said is better is better. For ex min requirement for rapid is >25% but hb only hv 26% so i wonder if this is gd enough.
Can i ask you a favour pls. You told me that yr hb SA result is now back to normal, I would like to know what is the % of his "normal forms" and "Rapid" I need a comparison from someone cos Doc will said is better is better. For ex min requirement for rapid is >25% but hb only hv 26% so i wonder if this is gd enough.
Yvonne,
If i want to do the x-tray next mth than i will not do FET. Actually we can do both at the same mth but Dr Sheila preper not cos in case not successful she does not want me to wonder if it is due to X-tray. Plus after hearing yr expereince, i rather not do both together. We can do salinsonogram on D10 and as you know ET usually around E16.
Actually i would like to do x-tray in nov and FET in dec. but my hb does not agree with me.I explained to him that if x-tray result is not gd at least we do not waste $ and time to do FET. Think he is getting impatient even though he kept saying that chance of suceess for FET is low. Will need to brainwash him again.
Today we rec his latest SA report, great improvment and i think is with the help of EYS. So we will continue to take chinese herbs but not at EYS but the one at clementi. And maybe for me, will change to your current sinseh.
If i want to do the x-tray next mth than i will not do FET. Actually we can do both at the same mth but Dr Sheila preper not cos in case not successful she does not want me to wonder if it is due to X-tray. Plus after hearing yr expereince, i rather not do both together. We can do salinsonogram on D10 and as you know ET usually around E16.
Actually i would like to do x-tray in nov and FET in dec. but my hb does not agree with me.I explained to him that if x-tray result is not gd at least we do not waste $ and time to do FET. Think he is getting impatient even though he kept saying that chance of suceess for FET is low. Will need to brainwash him again.
Today we rec his latest SA report, great improvment and i think is with the help of EYS. So we will continue to take chinese herbs but not at EYS but the one at clementi. And maybe for me, will change to your current sinseh.
atlas,
I would like to switch is cos we feel EYS is ex $300/mth + Dr Xia is only back once a mth. Also i read that Dr Tan is specialise in male fertility. How do you feel abt Dr Tan, is his medication in power form? Have to take everyday?
OK i give you the nos. , can you also share yr hb readings so i can make comparison.
Count increase from 31 million to 76 million
Rapid fr 10% to 26% Normal form fr 5% to 10%
I would like to switch is cos we feel EYS is ex $300/mth + Dr Xia is only back once a mth. Also i read that Dr Tan is specialise in male fertility. How do you feel abt Dr Tan, is his medication in power form? Have to take everyday?
OK i give you the nos. , can you also share yr hb readings so i can make comparison.
Count increase from 31 million to 76 million
Rapid fr 10% to 26% Normal form fr 5% to 10%
Nanz,
Actually i hope the improvement is due to no smoking, in this case at least the condition will stay as long as he does not stop. If is cos of chinese herbs, i worry if he stops taking, he will have sperm disorder again. Hopefully one day we can try to concieve the natural way. Where is everyone? All pregnant liao so maybe sleepy... hihi
Actually i hope the improvement is due to no smoking, in this case at least the condition will stay as long as he does not stop. If is cos of chinese herbs, i worry if he stops taking, he will have sperm disorder again. Hopefully one day we can try to concieve the natural way. Where is everyone? All pregnant liao so maybe sleepy... hihi
Blur/Renee/Ad:
Now i know why i behave so last nite....see my pregnancy calendar...haha..going to show my hubby too. haha..giving excuse to cover myself.
02 Nov, 2006: Your pregnancy calendar for today: Your hormone levels are all over the place, which may leave you feeling more vulnerable and weepy than usual. You may also find that you're more forgetful.
Now i know why i behave so last nite....see my pregnancy calendar...haha..going to show my hubby too. haha..giving excuse to cover myself.
02 Nov, 2006: Your pregnancy calendar for today: Your hormone levels are all over the place, which may leave you feeling more vulnerable and weepy than usual. You may also find that you're more forgetful.
amateur_ivfian
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Nanz,
So zhun ah?? hahahaha!!
So zhun ah?? hahahaha!!
BB,
your hb sperm count is quite decent to try naturally liao, you can also start doing that too. my hb urologist suggest 3 SA test, 1 for 1 quarter, he said that is more accurate than base on 1 SA test cos like traffic, sometimes the road is more congested compared to other time of the day.
your hb sperm count is quite decent to try naturally liao, you can also start doing that too. my hb urologist suggest 3 SA test, 1 for 1 quarter, he said that is more accurate than base on 1 SA test cos like traffic, sometimes the road is more congested compared to other time of the day.
BB,
okay, if now you switch to my current sinseh, she will not take you in if she knows that you doing FET or IVF, since you going to start soon, might as well as continue EYS??? i am doing it next year so now have a few mths to take her medicine to see how is the result unless when you see her, you tell her that you want to tiao your body plus try to conceive naturally, i think your body condition is quite normal, shd be just tiao to conceive lor. I am going next mon to see her again at 12:30pm, you coming???
okay, if now you switch to my current sinseh, she will not take you in if she knows that you doing FET or IVF, since you going to start soon, might as well as continue EYS??? i am doing it next year so now have a few mths to take her medicine to see how is the result unless when you see her, you tell her that you want to tiao your body plus try to conceive naturally, i think your body condition is quite normal, shd be just tiao to conceive lor. I am going next mon to see her again at 12:30pm, you coming???