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Thanks all.
Sissilly; I can totally understand how u r feeling coz I was in ur shoes 2 years back. My sister in law worst coz we don't meet eye to eye n she gave birth n didn't want me to touch her child. Sister in laws r Juz b**chs n u should Juz take care of urself. At the end of the day no one can understand what u r going through only u know. Juz try to focus on ur goal. K ? Huggz
Sissilly; I can totally understand how u r feeling coz I was in ur shoes 2 years back. My sister in law worst coz we don't meet eye to eye n she gave birth n didn't want me to touch her child. Sister in laws r Juz b**chs n u should Juz take care of urself. At the end of the day no one can understand what u r going through only u know. Juz try to focus on ur goal. K ? Huggz
glimmer_of_hope
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clb, yah i try to ren until KK appt..but if anything unusual pops up then will go scan for assurance. Just hanging on...Yr gynae add is the same place as LC Cheng. That room all very gd gynaes. So u shld be sticking with Dr Benjamin? Gd at least don't have to wait long long for Dr Loh...I shall finish the scan & decide where to go.
Hi gals
Just out fr a meeting.. Soo many post.. Habent read them yet..
Hi clb
Fr ur link, i realise there r bad review abt doc Paul..;( so now i am in a delimma.. Very lucky as hv manage to get an appointment on wed morning for doc benjamin too.. Shd i see him instead of doc paul? Hazel.. Wht u think?
Hmm... Does he does gd stiches during delivery for ur collegues too?
Is he ok if we r to go to kkh give birth and only see him for assurance? Thks for the question to doc benjamin abt the retinol toxic.. So he meant apply on face is ok?? Is his waiting time long? I need a reassuring gynea than a gynea who makes me keep worry for things he say..;(
Hi dj
Hee.. U see me too high.. I didnt even sure whether i hv twins..keke.. Though i hope to hv..
Hi ltjabi
Whts ur hcg reading and u r at day wht now?
Just out fr a meeting.. Soo many post.. Habent read them yet..
Hi clb
Fr ur link, i realise there r bad review abt doc Paul..;( so now i am in a delimma.. Very lucky as hv manage to get an appointment on wed morning for doc benjamin too.. Shd i see him instead of doc paul? Hazel.. Wht u think?
Hmm... Does he does gd stiches during delivery for ur collegues too?
Is he ok if we r to go to kkh give birth and only see him for assurance? Thks for the question to doc benjamin abt the retinol toxic.. So he meant apply on face is ok?? Is his waiting time long? I need a reassuring gynea than a gynea who makes me keep worry for things he say..;(
Hi dj
Hee.. U see me too high.. I didnt even sure whether i hv twins..keke.. Though i hope to hv..
Hi ltjabi
Whts ur hcg reading and u r at day wht now?
Lamby
Sounds positive leh to have no appetite...heheh.me having tumy cramps and leg abit aching...so been trying to rest as much as i can..Wat have u been doing today??? me v bored leh... 2 more days to end the misery adn torturous wait.I may be enjoying my feasting on thurs, so may not get back to update this forum so fast..i m not on iphone.
Sounds positive leh to have no appetite...heheh.me having tumy cramps and leg abit aching...so been trying to rest as much as i can..Wat have u been doing today??? me v bored leh... 2 more days to end the misery adn torturous wait.I may be enjoying my feasting on thurs, so may not get back to update this forum so fast..i m not on iphone.
J03- I also wrote
have reviews on them...take them with a pinch of salt..coz some are definitely good docs.. but perhaps pple who are unhappy with them posted comments, and pple who are happy with them din post any comments...best is choose from those recommended by sisters/frens/relatives, who have had positive experiences with them...
Think as urs is high chance twins, shld go with Paul, who is ok with u delivering in Kk?I recalled Hazel also had good experience with him de.sure he's fine,think u search motherhood thread will always see his name mentioned positvely too.I din ask Benjamin whether can deliver under dr loh as only singleton. Will prob cancel Kk Appt for me.so girl, i think u r overloaded with infor, juz stick to orginal plan? Tat link was intended for Melodi only.
have reviews on them...take them with a pinch of salt..coz some are definitely good docs.. but perhaps pple who are unhappy with them posted comments, and pple who are happy with them din post any comments...best is choose from those recommended by sisters/frens/relatives, who have had positive experiences with them...
Think as urs is high chance twins, shld go with Paul, who is ok with u delivering in Kk?I recalled Hazel also had good experience with him de.sure he's fine,think u search motherhood thread will always see his name mentioned positvely too.I din ask Benjamin whether can deliver under dr loh as only singleton. Will prob cancel Kk Appt for me.so girl, i think u r overloaded with infor, juz stick to orginal plan? Tat link was intended for Melodi only.
bluenosebear
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Itjabi- congrats. This mth really lucky mth. Hope tis will keep rolling.
glimmer_of_hope
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Wah ltjabi, yr hcg is even higher than mine..mine is 3165. Congrats on your twins! heng u trsf two..so if yr reading is so high yet kena two, then i don't worry abt triplets anymore. This is yr 2nd IVF with FET rite? superb lucky another gd strike! u mentioned yr previous also kena twins, wat was yr reading then, can rem?
Hi Goh
Ltjabi reading is taken on day 19 while ours r on day 17 so if pp say every two days shd increase double then hers maybe around 2000 on day 17 too.. Which means.. U may still be having triplets since ur reading so high than any of us too..
Btw, how r u feeling? Ms kick in already.. I always hungry and now my taste bud getting more jia lat day by day for dinner.. Like now, i dun feel like eating anything but yet feel hungry.. Last time i love my mum homecook dinner but today, totally feel not so appealing.. Last night still quite okbut not today.. Just feel tired and want to zzzz...
Hi ltjabi
Wah.. U already hv twins? Means u will be having 4kids in total? Thats gd.. still remember ur last twin bfp reading?
Ltjabi reading is taken on day 19 while ours r on day 17 so if pp say every two days shd increase double then hers maybe around 2000 on day 17 too.. Which means.. U may still be having triplets since ur reading so high than any of us too..
Btw, how r u feeling? Ms kick in already.. I always hungry and now my taste bud getting more jia lat day by day for dinner.. Like now, i dun feel like eating anything but yet feel hungry.. Last time i love my mum homecook dinner but today, totally feel not so appealing.. Last night still quite okbut not today.. Just feel tired and want to zzzz...
Hi ltjabi
Wah.. U already hv twins? Means u will be having 4kids in total? Thats gd..
still remember ur last twin bfp reading?hi everyone..jst got up after comin home fm my ET tis morn.
eventho thawed 6embbies..only transferred 3(Grade 2-good/Care in-house grading) w no balance left..sad..(2embbies v low grade n 1embbie didnt survive).
so will b officially 2ww..will b able to check thread more often fm now on..
itjabi: Congratz!*hugz**hugz*...so happy for u! tis month is really a fantastic month!!hope more good news rolling in
will b collectin plenty of bbdust fm all sistas here..*grab* *grab*
eventho thawed 6embbies..only transferred 3(Grade 2-good/Care in-house grading) w no balance left..sad..(2embbies v low grade n 1embbie didnt survive).
so will b officially 2ww..will b able to check thread more often fm now on..
itjabi: Congratz!*hugz**hugz*...so happy for u! tis month is really a fantastic month!!hope more good news rolling in
will b collectin plenty of bbdust fm all sistas here..*grab* *grab*
Hi Silsilly
Hugz... Must try to stay positive for ur follicle development k.. Dun let anyone affect u.. They r just insenstive as they r not in ur shoe so u dun take it too hard too k.. At least u stay happy n relax, ur chances of joining ur sis in law will be soon.. whenever u not happy, just vent here k.. jiayou..
Hi bb nn
All the best to ur er tomorow..
Hi pink
How ur et today? Congrat for official 2ww le..
Hi lamby
Hope gd news are on the way for u soon too on coming Thursday..
Hugz... Must try to stay positive for ur follicle development k.. Dun let anyone affect u.. They r just insenstive as they r not in ur shoe so u dun take it too hard too k.. At least u stay happy n relax, ur chances of joining ur sis in law will be soon..
whenever u not happy, just vent here k.. jiayou.. Hi bb nn
All the best to ur er tomorow..
Hi pink
How ur et today? Congrat for official 2ww le..
Hi lamby
Hope gd news are on the way for u soon too on coming Thursday..
oh..my remainin 2 low grade embbies were discarded.so no more frozen FET 4me liao.
if i intend 2do anoth round of ivf next time must re-do fresh cycle w lucrin jabs etc..sigh!
hope to strike tis round..triplets/twins or singleton oso can...like melodi said...as long they are born healthy..gender unimportant oso.
if i intend 2do anoth round of ivf next time must re-do fresh cycle w lucrin jabs etc..sigh!
hope to strike tis round..triplets/twins or singleton oso can...like melodi said...as long they are born healthy..gender unimportant oso.
Hi ltjabi
My hcg reading is 2008.4 at day 17bt.. Not sure will be singleton or twin yet... oh.. Wht happen at ur wk8? Got bleed suddenly or u carry something heavy that time? Can imagine the stress u gone thru after mc one.. So how gynea remove ur 2nd embroye after mc.. U give birth to ur gal at kkh that time?
Hi pink
At least u put in three gd grade embroye so got chance to bfp.. all the best..
My hcg reading is 2008.4 at day 17bt.. Not sure will be singleton or twin yet... oh.. Wht happen at ur wk8? Got bleed suddenly or u carry something heavy that time? Can imagine the stress u gone thru after mc one.. So how gynea remove ur 2nd embroye after mc.. U give birth to ur gal at kkh that time?
Hi pink
At least u put in three gd grade embroye so got chance to bfp..
all the best..itjabi/j03: thnx!
happy to 'relax' alittle now dun hv 2think abt work.wil religiously take my Care meds/supports n dr.zou's herbs...evryth elz will b beyong my control.def will b very anxious wen itz time to test after 2weeks..i can imagine the anxiety u sistas had...haha
ordy stock up on my fridge n my bread.will buy some black kampung chix n try e recipe(chix essence 1 sista generously shared
.. thank you.
will oso make some dried longan/wolfberries/dates drink n keep warm my womb.brazil nuts will oso b on my shoppin list.itz not cheap but i thnk my embbies r worth it..hee!
ok got2go makan...continue later!
ordy stock up on my fridge n my bread.will buy some black kampung chix n try e recipe(chix essence 1 sista generously shared
will oso make some dried longan/wolfberries/dates drink n keep warm my womb.brazil nuts will oso b on my shoppin list.itz not cheap but i thnk my embbies r worth it..hee!
ok got2go makan...continue later!
Pink
welcome to the 2ww club...so good, u transferred 3.... May i know why ur gynae decided to let u transfer 3? Is it coz of ur history or wat? Me coming to the end of the 2ww while u have just started...do take things slowly..the sistas here will surely provide u with comfort and advice on the dos and dons...Enjoy..
welcome to the 2ww club...so good, u transferred 3.... May i know why ur gynae decided to let u transfer 3? Is it coz of ur history or wat? Me coming to the end of the 2ww while u have just started...do take things slowly..the sistas here will surely provide u with comfort and advice on the dos and dons...Enjoy..
Dj; 4!!! No la. 4 how to manage? N bb healthay be affected so 1 okie 2 also okie as long as healthy. I had flu n sore thoart n cough during 2ww n AF like symptoms like menses reporting. Nothing else.
Joanne; everything was okie. Both embryo had heartbeat then one day suddenly like got menses come. I was in the train going to cousin place. I remember it was labour day. So frightened of that day now. I ran to toilet n found bleeding. Didn't have pad so had to wear tissue then rush to kkh. They did vaginal scan n detected one embryo heartbeat stop to it was trying to come out. But danger was it cud pull the other one with it so was hospitalized for a while then bedrest n support for few weeks.
Joanne; everything was okie. Both embryo had heartbeat then one day suddenly like got menses come. I was in the train going to cousin place. I remember it was labour day. So frightened of that day now. I ran to toilet n found bleeding. Didn't have pad so had to wear tissue then rush to kkh. They did vaginal scan n detected one embryo heartbeat stop to it was trying to come out. But danger was it cud pull the other one with it so was hospitalized for a while then bedrest n support for few weeks.
Hi Mill
How r u? R u having boy or gal? U r seeing which gynea now? When is ur edd date? Hv a smooth delivery..
Hi ltjabi
I see.. It must be a stress moment for u at that period.. U must hv a sense of relief after ur daughter is born.. this time will be smooth smooth pregnancy for us k..
How r u? R u having boy or gal? U r seeing which gynea now? When is ur edd date? Hv a smooth delivery..
Hi ltjabi
I see.. It must be a stress moment for u at that period.. U must hv a sense of relief after ur daughter is born..
this time will be smooth smooth pregnancy for us k..BB- Good luck for your ER tomor..dun worry, u'll be knocked out.. when u wake up, all will be over.
Pink - welcome to 2ww. dun worry abt remaining embbies, concentrate on this round, i'm sure you will "infected" with the positive vibes going around in Apr mth, catch the growing big ball of bb ddust n strike. =)
Melodi- yes i thinked "fated". then dun think abt seeing pte till after next wed. sure all will be fine during next wed's scan okie? did you explain to ur colleagues abt ur absence?
Pink - welcome to 2ww. dun worry abt remaining embbies, concentrate on this round, i'm sure you will "infected" with the positive vibes going around in Apr mth, catch the growing big ball of bb ddust n strike. =)
Melodi- yes i thinked "fated". then dun think abt seeing pte till after next wed. sure all will be fine during next wed's scan okie? did you explain to ur colleagues abt ur absence?
Joanne03, Congrat!
I'm fine, thks. Dont know yet is boy or girl. As long as baby are born healthy. I'm still under Care. Haven switch to gynea yet. Mine edd on early of Oct.
You cant decide see which gynea?
Anyone heard abt Douglas Ong Kheng Ho at Mt Elizabeth? My husband colleagues introduce her gynea to me. She mention he is very good and careful, takes very good care of her during her two pregnancies. Is a nice and gentle man.
I'm fine, thks. Dont know yet is boy or girl. As long as baby are born healthy. I'm still under Care. Haven switch to gynea yet. Mine edd on early of Oct.
You cant decide see which gynea?
Anyone heard abt Douglas Ong Kheng Ho at Mt Elizabeth? My husband colleagues introduce her gynea to me. She mention he is very good and careful, takes very good care of her during her two pregnancies. Is a nice and gentle man.
dj/summer/clb: thnx 4e blessings..will try enjoy my 2ww..i'm sure u sistas will "keep me company" n i wont feel so lonely..
i will oso try stay positive and stay focus tis round.will relax more n not overly stress over minor stuff.best of all..enjoy DH's pampering..hahah!
hi j03:e remaining 3embbies..1 dint survive thaw n 2 was of lower grade,so Care discarded them.thus am prayin hard the 3embbies transferred today continue to multiply in cells n will deliver good news at the end of the 2ww!i'm counting on them to grow healthily..
I will continue w Paul for awhl til i decide if i wan to chg to my regular gynae.Paul is wonderful!he's always cheerful and friendly.he's been really attentive to my concerns and he's patient to all my queries wic was my grouses w other doctors.he never overlook anyth so he will scan/check again n again...tatz how meticulous he is.most importantly i can connect w him and felt comfortable wen i visit him.
btw,Paul doesnt practice caesarian unless absolute necessary.he's all natural,no induce no snipping below too.u must consider these if u wish to engage him all the way till delivery.
hi j03:e remaining 3embbies..1 dint survive thaw n 2 was of lower grade,so Care discarded them.thus am prayin hard the 3embbies transferred today continue to multiply in cells n will deliver good news at the end of the 2ww!i'm counting on them to grow healthily..
I will continue w Paul for awhl til i decide if i wan to chg to my regular gynae.Paul is wonderful!he's always cheerful and friendly.he's been really attentive to my concerns and he's patient to all my queries wic was my grouses w other doctors.he never overlook anyth so he will scan/check again n again...tatz how meticulous he is.most importantly i can connect w him and felt comfortable wen i visit him.
btw,Paul doesnt practice caesarian unless absolute necessary.he's all natural,no induce no snipping below too.u must consider these if u wish to engage him all the way till delivery.
Hi Mill
How many bbies are u carrying? So u hv been seeing doc Paul till today?? How do u find him? And how many wks r u at now? Rest well woah... Thk u..
Hi Pink
Thks so much for ur doc Paul advise.. seems like u feel gd to be under him.. Hmm.. Me decide to see him together with doc Loh if is twins and deliver at kkh.. If after check tomorow is singleton, i will change to another pte gynea fr tmc again who got package provide.. (wonder whether doc benjamin has any package?) so i hv decide to see him first since he is CARE ivf specialist so i guess he is proficient in ivf patient who bfp.. Thk u for making my mind too..
Hi melodi
Since i no longer seeing doc benjamin tomorow, u want to take up my slot at 10:30am? Since u say appment is full this week.. Strange is after u say full, i try call up and they manage to get one slot for me.. U want to go?
Hi fate
Hugz... Glad and admire ur never give up attitude.. Jiayou and u will bfp next round k..
Hi gals
I feel so much relax after make the decision to see gynea tomorow as this hestitation has been stressing me.. So hv a gd night sleep last night.. Tonight gonna stress with tomorow apptment again.. thks soo much for all of ur kind and patient with me..
How many bbies are u carrying? So u hv been seeing doc Paul till today?? How do u find him? And how many wks r u at now? Rest well woah... Thk u..
Hi Pink
Thks so much for ur doc Paul advise..
seems like u feel gd to be under him.. Hmm.. Me decide to see him together with doc Loh if is twins and deliver at kkh.. If after check tomorow is singleton, i will change to another pte gynea fr tmc again who got package provide.. (wonder whether doc benjamin has any package?) so i hv decide to see him first since he is CARE ivf specialist so i guess he is proficient in ivf patient who bfp.. Thk u for making my mind too.. Hi melodi
Since i no longer seeing doc benjamin tomorow, u want to take up my slot at 10:30am? Since u say appment is full this week.. Strange is after u say full, i try call up and they manage to get one slot for me.. U want to go?
Hi fate
Hugz... Glad and admire ur never give up attitude.. Jiayou and u will bfp next round k..
Hi gals
I feel so much relax after make the decision to see gynea tomorow as this hestitation has been stressing me.. So hv a gd night sleep last night.. Tonight gonna stress with tomorow apptment again..
thks soo much for all of ur kind and patient with me..