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my dh used to be like tat.... So what i did was change the way i tell him. I will say,
1. 'there's a lady, she did laundry, then kena bleeding, and miscarriage. Scary hor...'
2. 'someone who during 2ww, walk ard alot, doing cooking then kena bit bit discharge and bfn. So jia lat hor'
so i rephrase is, take it as sharing what i knw. So i let him process and knw for himself what i can do, cannot do.
So now tat i left a mth, dh start to look for comfy sofa bed so tat i can lounge when watch tv. He tell me dun walk ard much. And say i can only bathe when he at hme. He was even worried the tingkat meals will be too heavy for me to carry.
Guys, let them learn on their own. Dun tell them what to do... Let them be the ones who tell us... They want to be the smart ones =)</font>