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potato_chip
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Jcml
Y suddenly u quit yr job? Wat happen? Cos of the tat new colleague or de old colleagues?
Y suddenly u quit yr job? Wat happen? Cos of the tat new colleague or de old colleagues?
tomatoes, tnsw and p chip
i tendered becoz of my that "lao heow" colleague. im supposed to be in charge of settlement dept and she's in charge of admin dept. well, she went to my boss and said she also wanted to take charge of settlement dept as well. since she has worked in this company for a couple of years my boss said ok. all these are done without my knowing. i dun mind she wanted to "oversee" my dept but she knows nuts abt settlement and finance (she's an O level holder) and started to implement procedures without my knowing. all these happened a few months back liao and i kept enduring until cannot liao lah.... when there's problems my boss kept questioning me, when there's no problems and everything is good, she gets all the credit. i mean, what is this? really feel very lousy lor...yesterday im quite upset and stressed that i told my yan zi i cannot tahan liao, i want to quit and he said ok....
i tendered becoz of my that "lao heow" colleague. im supposed to be in charge of settlement dept and she's in charge of admin dept. well, she went to my boss and said she also wanted to take charge of settlement dept as well. since she has worked in this company for a couple of years my boss said ok. all these are done without my knowing. i dun mind she wanted to "oversee" my dept but she knows nuts abt settlement and finance (she's an O level holder) and started to implement procedures without my knowing. all these happened a few months back liao and i kept enduring until cannot liao lah.... when there's problems my boss kept questioning me, when there's no problems and everything is good, she gets all the credit. i mean, what is this? really feel very lousy lor...yesterday im quite upset and stressed that i told my yan zi i cannot tahan liao, i want to quit and he said ok....
tnsw
yup my boss is a man...he said will talk to me later but to me talking is really pointless coz as long as she's around, she will dominate me and override me what, then ask me to be in charge of settlement for what, might as well ask me to work under her and she take charge lah, got any problems go and ask her lor, ask me for what...as if got problems it's my fault and everything goes smoothly is HER CREDIT. aiyoh, very pek chey...dun care lah, im goin to take half day and go home, dun want to listen to his crap!!
yup my boss is a man...he said will talk to me later but to me talking is really pointless coz as long as she's around, she will dominate me and override me what, then ask me to be in charge of settlement for what, might as well ask me to work under her and she take charge lah, got any problems go and ask her lor, ask me for what...as if got problems it's my fault and everything goes smoothly is HER CREDIT. aiyoh, very pek chey...dun care lah, im goin to take half day and go home, dun want to listen to his crap!!
potato_chip
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Jcml
So is the lao heow tat cos u to quit. Sigh.. wat to do, she can cry well lei.
So is the lao heow tat cos u to quit. Sigh.. wat to do, she can cry well lei.
potato_chip
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Jcml
Ok, go home n rest now. Cool down, cool down.
Ok, go home n rest now. Cool down, cool down.
tomatoes
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Thanks for your help.
Yes, I did brought my bb to my mum's house and my mum did give a ang pow to my bb. But the angpow was not given exactly on her full month. Initially she was slightly ok at my mum's house the first few days... But yesterday she was crying terribly hard and her hand shivered when she was sleeping... How come like this huh?
Actually it is not exactly my mum's house. It is actually my grandma house. My mum has to travel to my grandma house to take care of her. So I need to bring bb down to my grandma house so that my mum can take care of both. I din mention this in the b4 cos quite complicated. Anyway, I did bring bb to my grandma house on bb full month but the angpow not given exactly on that day.
Now my relative said that I must put a dish with 5 different flowers under her cot (both at my hse and my grandma house). Then let bb carry a pamelo leave after she bath wor.
What else can I do now huh?
Jcml
I second your decision. If not happy, just quit. With your credentials, can find a new job easily. Who knows, you will strike this cycle (no stress) and might as well be a SAHM.
Yes, I did brought my bb to my mum's house and my mum did give a ang pow to my bb. But the angpow was not given exactly on her full month. Initially she was slightly ok at my mum's house the first few days... But yesterday she was crying terribly hard and her hand shivered when she was sleeping... How come like this huh?
Actually it is not exactly my mum's house. It is actually my grandma house. My mum has to travel to my grandma house to take care of her. So I need to bring bb down to my grandma house so that my mum can take care of both. I din mention this in the b4 cos quite complicated. Anyway, I did bring bb to my grandma house on bb full month but the angpow not given exactly on that day.
Now my relative said that I must put a dish with 5 different flowers under her cot (both at my hse and my grandma house). Then let bb carry a pamelo leave after she bath wor.
What else can I do now huh?
Jcml
I second your decision. If not happy, just quit. With your credentials, can find a new job easily. Who knows, you will strike this cycle (no stress) and might as well be a SAHM.
potato_chip
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Tnsw
Wow yr description then good lei.
Tomatoes
Maybe everytime u bring bb out of the house, u try to put a stalk of ang hui in a red packet in her pocket. Hope all these will help.
Wow yr description then good lei.
Tomatoes
Maybe everytime u bring bb out of the house, u try to put a stalk of ang hui in a red packet in her pocket. Hope all these will help.
hi all,
thanks for the kind concern...im going home soon to rest and i did not apply half day leave, i just took off day, dun care...
tnsw,
i think not only see her "neh neh", maybe even touch liao, that's why will listen to her...aiyoo so cheapskate
i dun think i will be using the PC at home and thus here's wishing you bon voyage first
hope you enjoy your stay there with da yan zi and xiao yan zi and maybe come back with xiao xiao yan zi
wish you success, must work hard okie?
die lah, will definately miss you alot...
tomatoes,
really hope giselle will be alright after the 5 flowers thingy and the pomelo leave stuff...hopefully the talisman from Guanyin temple can also help to comfort her
thanks for the kind concern...im going home soon to rest and i did not apply half day leave, i just took off day, dun care...
tnsw,
i think not only see her "neh neh", maybe even touch liao, that's why will listen to her...aiyoo so cheapskate
i dun think i will be using the PC at home and thus here's wishing you bon voyage first
hope you enjoy your stay there with da yan zi and xiao yan zi and maybe come back with xiao xiao yan zi
wish you success, must work hard okie?
die lah, will definately miss you alot...
tomatoes,
really hope giselle will be alright after the 5 flowers thingy and the pomelo leave stuff...hopefully the talisman from Guanyin temple can also help to comfort her
jcml,
heh heh, me will miss you all too...
go and enjoy yrself lah...now u must be appreciative of your da yanzi liao lah...u must be a xing4 fu2 de4 xiao1 nu3 ren2...dun later go and join the sahm thread and dump us hor...
tomatoes,
better to have more than less of the auspicious objects....
heh heh, me will miss you all too...
go and enjoy yrself lah...now u must be appreciative of your da yanzi liao lah...u must be a xing4 fu2 de4 xiao1 nu3 ren2...dun later go and join the sahm thread and dump us hor...
tomatoes,
better to have more than less of the auspicious objects....
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wizard_skool
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Hi everyone,
i have been reading this thread. I have gone thru some fertility treatment and have found this thread helpful in giving me more information.. Thanks to all for the information, i have learnt alot from it.
i have been reading this thread. I have gone thru some fertility treatment and have found this thread helpful in giving me more information.. Thanks to all for the information, i have learnt alot from it.
Hi eesh,
ya. I m currently 15 wks, cannot see the gender yet, still early lah, I suppose during the detail scan at 20 wks, should be able to know. but I dont really mind the sex lah. as long as it is healthy can liao.
Hi tomatoes,
poor baby giselle. really heartpain for you lei. I think u got to try all methods liao. Tell ur mum must carry and hug her, give her some sense of security when she cry hor, dont let her cry until got umbilical hernia lei. if kana, will not recover completely one lei thou it is harmless but very ugly lor.
jcml,
I second ur decision. Dont believe u can't get a better offer. right! the nature of your job should be quite easy to get one in town. so next time we can meet often for lunch liao...
tnsw,
Hope u have a enjoyable & fruitful trip back! Good Luck! tons n tons of Baby Dust for u! u must work hard huh! dont be lazy hor.
ya. I m currently 15 wks, cannot see the gender yet, still early lah, I suppose during the detail scan at 20 wks, should be able to know. but I dont really mind the sex lah. as long as it is healthy can liao.
Hi tomatoes,
poor baby giselle. really heartpain for you lei. I think u got to try all methods liao. Tell ur mum must carry and hug her, give her some sense of security when she cry hor, dont let her cry until got umbilical hernia lei. if kana, will not recover completely one lei thou it is harmless but very ugly lor.
jcml,
I second ur decision. Dont believe u can't get a better offer. right! the nature of your job should be quite easy to get one in town. so next time we can meet often for lunch liao...
tnsw,
Hope u have a enjoyable & fruitful trip back! Good Luck! tons n tons of Baby Dust for u! u must work hard huh! dont be lazy hor.
potato_chip
New Member
Hi tomatoes
I wld suggest u buy a pot of ang hui, more convenient. My fren oso buy a pot of ang hui jus for this purpose lei and she find it very useful. If not her gal everytime very cranky after outing. Ya, yukiko is rite, this plant very pang tang hor, don touch it when u having AF. Yr neighbour will come after u if u touch hers during yr AF (she will noe).
Tnsw
Ang hui is a kind of plant. Very common plant. De flower is red n will grow into a round fruit. Inside will hv many many many seeds.
I wld suggest u buy a pot of ang hui, more convenient. My fren oso buy a pot of ang hui jus for this purpose lei and she find it very useful. If not her gal everytime very cranky after outing. Ya, yukiko is rite, this plant very pang tang hor, don touch it when u having AF. Yr neighbour will come after u if u touch hers during yr AF (she will noe).
Tnsw
Ang hui is a kind of plant. Very common plant. De flower is red n will grow into a round fruit. Inside will hv many many many seeds.
Tomatoes,
eating yong tau foo, nothing else to eat becuz i very lazy to walk and must make use of lunch time to call my clients to let them noe i on leave liao..
you went to kuanyin temple to get the necessary items?din noe that cpf building last time got duck mee, izzit the cafeteria there?
eating yong tau foo, nothing else to eat becuz i very lazy to walk and must make use of lunch time to call my clients to let them noe i on leave liao..
you went to kuanyin temple to get the necessary items?din noe that cpf building last time got duck mee, izzit the cafeteria there?
Potato chip,
ang hui must be a hokkien word describing it....do pple usually plant it?
wat are you supposed to do with the flower?i din noe got so many superstitions to tis plant?wat happens if pple got af go and touch the plant, wat wld happen?oso...is it also confinement women cant touch as they are considered "dirty" if they hv not celebrated the man yue (full month)?
ang hui must be a hokkien word describing it....do pple usually plant it?
wat are you supposed to do with the flower?i din noe got so many superstitions to tis plant?wat happens if pple got af go and touch the plant, wat wld happen?oso...is it also confinement women cant touch as they are considered "dirty" if they hv not celebrated the man yue (full month)?
tomatoes,
the duck rice stall from CPF move to amoy and yet u dont know?? I think is 1st floor lei but not sure the exact location coz i seldom eat duck rice. I heard my colleague say is somewhere inside one of the corner stall. u should try the one at Tanjong Pager Food Centre, not bad too. always long queue.
the duck rice stall from CPF move to amoy and yet u dont know?? I think is 1st floor lei but not sure the exact location coz i seldom eat duck rice. I heard my colleague say is somewhere inside one of the corner stall. u should try the one at Tanjong Pager Food Centre, not bad too. always long queue.
tomatoes
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ET,
You not updated liao lah... that stall long gone at Amoy also... dun know where they move to. Forgot to take their contact no.
Potato Chip
Think maybe I should go c if my grandma house has it first b4 I buy.
tnsw,
YTF again... I thought you will eat your fav food today.
Ya, got the fu2 liao. Hee! Very tired after coming back.
You not updated liao lah... that stall long gone at Amoy also... dun know where they move to. Forgot to take their contact no.
Potato Chip
Think maybe I should go c if my grandma house has it first b4 I buy.
tnsw,
YTF again... I thought you will eat your fav food today.
Ya, got the fu2 liao. Hee! Very tired after coming back.
tomatoes,
agree with P_chip. u should buy one pot and put outside ur house. I got one pot outside when I moved in. then my hb ask my why must put one pot outside, I told him for convenience once we got baby and also to let people know we are a chinese family .
..he say I "cheena".
P_Chip,
I very lousy in gardening lei, my ang huay always die. I planned 2 pots already, both died liao. Now waiting for pasar malam to buy another pot. I think my hb always water too much water and maybe that's why drown the plant and died.
agree with P_chip. u should buy one pot and put outside ur house. I got one pot outside when I moved in. then my hb ask my why must put one pot outside, I told him for convenience once we got baby and also to let people know we are a chinese family .
P_Chip,
I very lousy in gardening lei, my ang huay always die. I planned 2 pots already, both died liao. Now waiting for pasar malam to buy another pot. I think my hb always water too much water and maybe that's why drown the plant and died.
tomatoes, no choice leh, nothing much else i can eat without carbo...cant anyhow eat liao...figured that the next few days i wld eat under pengz...
et,
how come must put outside the house to let pple noe you are chinese family? they dun sell at normal places like orchards and those flower shops..must buy at pasar malams?
xia liu ?what is the hanyu pinyin?how does it "sound" like?
et,
how come must put outside the house to let pple noe you are chinese family? they dun sell at normal places like orchards and those flower shops..must buy at pasar malams?
xia liu ?what is the hanyu pinyin?how does it "sound" like?
ET,
xie xie...but still got let pple scold half bucket of water...they say tis type of plant very xiao qi (petty) one, is it?
i only knew pomegranate (dun noe spelt correctly or not) is shi2 liu2 from chinese restaurant got one dish called shi2 liu2 ji2 (am sure you hv tried before, the deep fried pockets with meat inside machiam like money bags (auspicious sounding)...delicious.....
izzit will bring good luck...if u plant it?
xie xie...but still got let pple scold half bucket of water...they say tis type of plant very xiao qi (petty) one, is it?
i only knew pomegranate (dun noe spelt correctly or not) is shi2 liu2 from chinese restaurant got one dish called shi2 liu2 ji2 (am sure you hv tried before, the deep fried pockets with meat inside machiam like money bags (auspicious sounding)...delicious.....
izzit will bring good luck...if u plant it?
Hi tomatoes,
Reading about how Giselle cried I makes me heartpain. Hope she'll adjust to your mum's place soon.
I remember my hubby's niece always cry very badly whenever she goes to my MIL's place. It was for a couple of weeks then we think it doesn't look right.. can't be everytime cry one right... so in the end, my MIL brought my niece (her grand daughter) to a temple to pray pray... and it worked.. the BB stopped crying at her place after that..
Hey gals,
We all take DCC right? Do you know if it's a chong2 (worm) or a cao3 (grass/herb)?
Reading about how Giselle cried I makes me heartpain. Hope she'll adjust to your mum's place soon.
I remember my hubby's niece always cry very badly whenever she goes to my MIL's place. It was for a couple of weeks then we think it doesn't look right.. can't be everytime cry one right... so in the end, my MIL brought my niece (her grand daughter) to a temple to pray pray... and it worked.. the BB stopped crying at her place after that..
Hey gals,
We all take DCC right? Do you know if it's a chong2 (worm) or a cao3 (grass/herb)?