hi berrybaby,
i understand the difficulty of the older child being sticky. But do take things slowly especially during 2ww. When i went for first cycle, my child also around your boy's age. During 2ww, with his persistance cry and fuss, i forgot and carried him, got really stress for not spending time with him. Which also indirectly lead to my failure. Then over the year of trying ivf, learnt to let him go, rely on other family members for help to look after him. When he grew older, i allow him to follow me for tcm treatment, doctor check up, watch how i inject myself, taste herbs and even into the ET room. So he understood the whole process and mature. I am into 3rd trimester now.
Hi singapoh,
congrats! happy to hear another good news. Do take care.