Hi Maxx,
I was like ur friend last time, that's why I was very discouraged and very scared to try FET. Dr yeong keep telling me that, there is still chance, so why give up? there are peolpe with grade 3 & 2 conceive triplets so dont think too much. Like what u say, just leave it to fate. and also to stay stress free. I know it is hard but just try, my FET I take it quite easy, not like during the fresh cycle, a bit stressed. Mine is grade 4 with fregmentation and all my embies need to do lazer hatching.