hi ladies... i been feeling down lately, partly after hearing sad news from some ladies here whom i feel so much for. plus that, i had chest pains on mon & tue, and developed flu on wed. just recovering today. i been thinking why is it so difficult for some women to get pregnant, while to others, it dun take them much effort at all. why when those who are blessed don't appreciate the gift, yet for some who yearned for a child, are not given the chance?
to meow, suyana, aris and the others who BFN... your positive attitude, strength and determination deserves respect.
frankly, after failing on Clomid and IUI, and being told that my husband has poor count/motility/morphology, i was not expecting BFP during our first try. my husband and i smokes. i only quit just before i started suprefact. i did smoke a couple of puffs during the suprefact stage but stopped totally by gonalf stage.
at the post-ET appt, i was told my husband only produced 3 million sperms and classified as very sluggish. but when i BFP and had 2 blasts, i was so thankful to God. only HE can make it happen. ladies, have faith in God. never give up the fight. doctors are just humans. ultimately, God decides.