snow19
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People want to have children is difficult.
People have children regretted. Lagi difficult.
I agree some more got ppl give birth Liao then treat their son like football throw here n there pity the kid
People want to have children is difficult.
People have children regretted. Lagi difficult.
I agree some more got ppl give birth Liao then treat their son like football throw here n there pity the kid
Hi lovelove,Thanks mummies, really feel my problem being recognize here rather than when i confided with my own mum, she just said,"I felt very sick listening to you complaining about the same issue!" I felt hurt and disappointed. Perhaps this is when I knew that I have been complaining the same issue numerous time till i miscount.
My kids actually behave well and better in me or maid absence, they prefer to listen to other than me which I also felt puzzled.
My naughty corner already "no effect", they seems to be playing and even stand when I did not even ask them to. Now i told myself i give up and will not use cane or try not to beat them as it doesn't work either. They will repeat again and again without fail. Hopefully they will pass through the "terribles" period and I can really enjoy so-called motherhood like any others.
To be frank, i really wish I can walk away, but even i shut the room door, i still could not control myself to walk out of the room to see what is going on when i heard the screaming and shuting, banging etc. I knew the maid is there to watch them but i simply can't completely shut myself out. HOme is for me to rest too, i have to work for 5 days and also hope to rest over the weekend. In fact, I really don't mind to spend all my spare time with my kids, go anywhere i can if they can behave themselves and don't "disgrace" me in the public when people start to stare at us as though these are "mother never teach" childrens. I swear that I really tried my best to disclipine them, both soft and hard approach i had used, but why they are still behaving like these.
At times, i really blame myself for the wrong decision i had made, i never foreseen having 2 kids in such a small gap have to face these misery in the first place.
Sorry for all these, i just need a place to tell out how i REALLY feel.