Raspberry38
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Not sure how to put it. It is a trivial thing but as a petty woman, this incident just tick me off quite abit.
Last year's Christmas eve, my hubby's buddy and his wife came to our house in the evening to visit us and to celebrate the festive season eve. That was a great thing as me and hubby do not have kids and the house is kind of quiet most of the time. So to have visitors coming made me so excited.
They are also bringing along another friend, Mr A, also my hubby's friend but not close. Everything is fine. My hubby's buddy's wife, Ms Z is a chatty, cheerful well groom young mother of 3 daughters and she really mixed well with everyone she went out with.
A total opposite of me who is a shy, timid introvert. Ms Z is like human magnet, and her vibe literally draws most ppl to her, meaning, alot of ppl likes her for her positive vibe, including me as I find her really approachable.
Then as usual, we sit around a dinner table and start playing card games. As a shy and quiet person, I don't talk much. Ms Z will just keep starting conversation with the guys and really entertaining, cracking jokes and such.
Then out of nowhere, Mr A raise his voice and said, ' Ms Z is most slim mother ! Ms Z is the most beautiful mothers among our group of friends. '
Then as it was really past 12 am, I was so tired and bored. I decided to go to sleep without telling them out of courtesy that I am retiring to bed.
I suppose I did the right thing for myself ?
Then the next day, I ask my hubby what was the motive of Mr A saying those last night. My hubby said only he will praise Ms Z.
I was still ticked off quite abit whenever I recall that incident. It is the feeling of someone putting you down on purpose.
I told my hubby that I never want them into my house anymore if that was how they 'thank' the co-host.
Am I doing the right thing ?
By the way, I haven't seen this group of my hubby's friends many years already. The reason why I stopped joining them is the same reason - feeling bored whenever I go out with them. Whatmore with an attention seeker Ms Z around ?
Last year's Christmas eve, my hubby's buddy and his wife came to our house in the evening to visit us and to celebrate the festive season eve. That was a great thing as me and hubby do not have kids and the house is kind of quiet most of the time. So to have visitors coming made me so excited.
They are also bringing along another friend, Mr A, also my hubby's friend but not close. Everything is fine. My hubby's buddy's wife, Ms Z is a chatty, cheerful well groom young mother of 3 daughters and she really mixed well with everyone she went out with.
A total opposite of me who is a shy, timid introvert. Ms Z is like human magnet, and her vibe literally draws most ppl to her, meaning, alot of ppl likes her for her positive vibe, including me as I find her really approachable.
Then as usual, we sit around a dinner table and start playing card games. As a shy and quiet person, I don't talk much. Ms Z will just keep starting conversation with the guys and really entertaining, cracking jokes and such.
Then out of nowhere, Mr A raise his voice and said, ' Ms Z is most slim mother ! Ms Z is the most beautiful mothers among our group of friends. '
Then as it was really past 12 am, I was so tired and bored. I decided to go to sleep without telling them out of courtesy that I am retiring to bed.
I suppose I did the right thing for myself ?
Then the next day, I ask my hubby what was the motive of Mr A saying those last night. My hubby said only he will praise Ms Z.
I was still ticked off quite abit whenever I recall that incident. It is the feeling of someone putting you down on purpose.
I told my hubby that I never want them into my house anymore if that was how they 'thank' the co-host.
Am I doing the right thing ?
By the way, I haven't seen this group of my hubby's friends many years already. The reason why I stopped joining them is the same reason - feeling bored whenever I go out with them. Whatmore with an attention seeker Ms Z around ?